Smooth Player 056
Master Don Juan
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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I think he has a nice voice.Originally posted by whyshy
Gay ass voice.:crackup: :crackup:
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Thanks man....I appreciate the encouragment. Tommorow is School for me and I plan to do a few approaches and secretly record them with my brand new audio recorder and hidden microphone....Ill post them tommorow when I get home from school.Originally posted by RaWBLooD
u dont need to do signing and signing in lol, this puts a reality to it tho, just seeing in text makes everyones reports feel like fiction storybooks.
I believe only the serious people will do the audio stuff, and not stupid trolls ( and im pretty sure you could tell if a troll made a fake ass report) so everyone should get this on.
good luck.![]()
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Mine cost $249, it is a top of the line Olympus recorder....plus I got a microphone to clip onto the top of my shirt collar...$29.99.Originally posted by Inc. ©
How much would a hidden audio recorder cost? And, how hard is it to get the files into computer format?
280$!!!!!!Originally posted by Smooth Player 056
Mine cost $249, it is a top of the line Olympus recorder....plus I got a microphone to clip onto the top of my shirt collar...$29.99.
Yeah, record it in the library on the computer. Just tell the girl that you need her to talk into the microphone. :crackup: :crackup:Originally posted by Brian20o2
280$!!!!!!
u must have a good job or rich parents!
lol any afforable ones out there? like maybe 100$ for everything?
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.