Smooth Player 056
Master Don Juan
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You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
I think he has a nice voice.Originally posted by whyshy
Gay ass voice.:crackup: :crackup:
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Thanks man....I appreciate the encouragment. Tommorow is School for me and I plan to do a few approaches and secretly record them with my brand new audio recorder and hidden microphone....Ill post them tommorow when I get home from school.Originally posted by RaWBLooD
u dont need to do signing and signing in lol, this puts a reality to it tho, just seeing in text makes everyones reports feel like fiction storybooks.
I believe only the serious people will do the audio stuff, and not stupid trolls ( and im pretty sure you could tell if a troll made a fake ass report) so everyone should get this on.
good luck.![]()
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Mine cost $249, it is a top of the line Olympus recorder....plus I got a microphone to clip onto the top of my shirt collar...$29.99.Originally posted by Inc. ©
How much would a hidden audio recorder cost? And, how hard is it to get the files into computer format?
280$!!!!!!Originally posted by Smooth Player 056
Mine cost $249, it is a top of the line Olympus recorder....plus I got a microphone to clip onto the top of my shirt collar...$29.99.
Yeah, record it in the library on the computer. Just tell the girl that you need her to talk into the microphone. :crackup: :crackup:Originally posted by Brian20o2
280$!!!!!!
u must have a good job or rich parents!
lol any afforable ones out there? like maybe 100$ for everything?
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.