Immaculate
Master Don Juan
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I could have played it better and had a f@ck buddy, but I really liked her personality and I didn't want to risk catching feelings for this girl.
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Ah ha! Yes I went back , but I did NOT put out for her. And I did NOT stay the night. She wanted it but I refused. I gave HER the let's just be friends line...hahahaha... freakin nympho's....Originally posted by Wyldfire
Told you that you would go right back...
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I cut her off because she emailed me and said "I never want to see you again"Originally posted by ketostix
You leave out a lot of details. You went from banging her to her cutting you off (how, why?), to her asking you over again, all withing a day or two..I guess she's just nuts.
sigh , you belong there.Originally posted by Immaculate
LOL
I'm bored so I just sent this W HORE a message
"I wonder Why I could never get off with you... I never had this problem with any other girls...especially last night.
Things that make you go hmmmmmm..."
LOL
B1tch... put her in her place. She already was like "is there simething wrong with me" LOL
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
LOL...that`s the last twist needed in this sordid tale.Originally posted by swampwiz
I took a look at her pics. She seems to have a bit of a masculine frame - like a man who would purposely let his muscles waste away a bit. And her facial structure seems to be a little on the strong side.
She made a reference to something in Bangkok. In case you didn't know, that's the leading place for transgendering operations.
Something to think about.