Oddest Match.com Experience EVER! (I think)

[Immaculate]

Should I keep chatting with her in AIM or just get the hell out.

 

[Immaculate]

Re: Wow -- another overrated Immaculate gal

Originally posted by WestCoaster
Like the Bay Area 'ho he slapped a "9" on (she was a 6 at best), this one is topping out at 5 -- if that. The first pic of her smiling is the best and on that one she's coming in at 5.5.

Hopefully she has a nice personality, she's not higher than a "6" at best. Definitely not worth this long thread ... my goodness Immaculate, you need to get out more.

hey man cut me some slack.. I got a date with a different girl tonight.. that brazilian chic... so at least i got a couple plates spinning.

 

[Immaculate]

Re: Wow -- another overrated Immaculate gal

Originally posted by WestCoaster
Like the Bay Area 'ho he slapped a "9" on (she was a 6 at best), this one is topping out at 5 -- if that. The first pic of her smiling is the best and on that one she's coming in at 5.5.

Hopefully she has a nice personality, she's not higher than a "6" at best. Definitely not worth this long thread ... my goodness Immaculate, you need to get out more.

This girl is cute, not beautiful, just cute. And yes, I love her personality.

Oh well I'm on my way to pick up the Japanese girl

Wish me luck!

Believe it or not guys this is the first time in my life I'm seeing 2 women at the same time. I want a 3rd now. I'm getting greedy LOL.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Originally posted by Immaculate
She wanted me to come over tonight and I told her I already have a date. She acted a bit mad and countered she had a date Thursday (I think she's lying).

Anyway why would she get mad? She's the one who keeps saying we aren't compatible and it will never work. And when we went to Best Buy together I tried to hold her hand and she said "hey no public displays of affection, who knows who might be in there"

It's time for you to learn the next step along the path of the DJ young Grasshopper, Skywalker, Apprentice (take your pick).

Judge not by the lyrical songs of the siren, judge only the expressive dance of the nymph.

Anyone care to translate?
And "yes," it's original....

 

[Derek Flint]

Let's see...she came over, you f***** her within an hour of meeting her, then afterwards, she left?

What's the problem again?

 

[Immaculate]

She emailed me again and said she doesn't want to hang out with me anymore, and she's sending my t-shirt back I left at her place. LOLLLLLLLLLLLLLL

I replied to her with a very well written email. What do ya think? I opened up my AIM today and she said HI, and then she said "im busy" and either closed AIM or blocked me. 10 bucks says I bang this girl again. Here's the email I sent to her after she said she doesn't want to see me anymore. I'm getting good




"I think you're old enough when you realize that there
is no 1 perfect person, have had enough relationships
to know what you REALLY find important in a partner,
and are comfortable enough with each other that you
are the same person with your partner as when you are
alone. Love isnt pretty, there will be times when you
have to be there at each others worst- like during
sickness. After that, you just have to understand that
no one person can fill all the voids in your life, so
you have to be committed to stick with that person
despite their shortcomings and not let it grow into
anger and resentment. Encourage each other to have
other friendships, support one another as you are one
team, remember to make them feel desired and special,
and be willing and able to adapt as they grow and
change. And remember that there are no rules to what
is acceptable and not acceptable in relationships...
make your relationship the way you and your partner
want it, not what the rest of society considers the
norm.

But more than anything else, you have to have to be a
challenge for each other. No one wants someone that
they have wrapped around their finger and no one can
last as a doormat forever. A little give and take that
keeps you both on your toes is the perfect way to keep
you both motivated, committed, and happy.

Lets face it, though, as a society we are always
looking for the next best thing... from jobs, to cars,
cell phones, ring tones, face lotions, and people.
With a seemingly infinite source of new faces and
personalities in our lives and online, its all to easy
to one-up or second guess the person you're with. So
why fight it? Go with the flow and have fun meeting,
learning, growing, and experimenting with different
people until you find someone that trumps it all and
you just know- because there is no rational way to
analyze love or to justify it to others... you just
know because, well, you know. "

 

[Slickster]

She says "I don't want to hang out with you anymore."

and you say.....

"I think you're old enough when you realize that there
is no 1 perfect person, have had enough relationships
to know what you REALLY find important in a partner,
and are comfortable enough with each other that you
are the same person with your partner as when you are
alone. Love isnt pretty, there will be times when you
have to be there at each others worst- like during
sickness. After that, you just have to understand that
no one person can fill all the voids in your life, so
you have to be committed to stick with that person
despite their shortcomings and not let it grow into
anger and resentment. Encourage each other to have
other friendships, support one another as you are one
team, remember to make them feel desired and special,
and be willing and able to adapt as they grow and
change. And remember that there are no rules to what
is acceptable and not acceptable in relationships...
make your relationship the way you and your partner
want it, not what the rest of society considers the
norm.

But more than anything else, you have to have to be a
challenge for each other. No one wants someone that
they have wrapped around their finger and no one can
last as a doormat forever. A little give and take that
keeps you both on your toes is the perfect way to keep
you both motivated, committed, and happy.

Lets face it, though, as a society we are always
looking for the next best thing... from jobs, to cars,
cell phones, ring tones, face lotions, and people.
With a seemingly infinite source of new faces and
personalities in our lives and online, its all to easy
to one-up or second guess the person you're with. So
why fight it? Go with the flow and have fun meeting,
learning, growing, and experimenting with different
people until you find someone that trumps it all and
you just know- because there is no rational way to
analyze love or to justify it to others... you just
know because, well, you know. "

In my opinion this was a little over the top.

If it were me.....

She: "I don't wanna hang out with you anymore."

Me: "See you around."


Really Mac do you actually think that email is going to get her back? Who knows with this crazy chick it probably will.

But when you are out there dealing with a more normal person I think an email like that will just drive the women further away. When she says she's not interested then what makes you think she wants to hear about your philosophies on life.

Not interested means not interested.

Good luck.

 

[Immaculate]

Originally posted by Slickster
She says "I don't want to hang out with you anymore."

and you say.....

In my opinion this was a little over the top.

If it were me.....

She: "I don't wanna hang out with you anymore."

Me: "See you around."


Really Mac do you actually think that email is going to get her back? Who knows with this crazy chick it probably will.

But when you are out there dealing with a more normal person I think an email like that will just drive the women further away. When she says she's not interested then what makes you think she wants to hear about your philosophies on life.

Not interested means not interested.

Good luck.

Then why does she still have me on her AIM buddy list? Wouldn't she have deleted me? I logged on today and she was online and said Hi to me, then said she was busy and logged off/blocked me. She hasn't been online since.

 

[Wyldfire]

She's playing you like a fiddle...

That is all.

 

[Immaculate]

That's fine.

This is great practice for me.

 

[Wyldfire]

Originally posted by Immaculate
That's fine.

This is great practice for me.

Immaculate...this woman cares less about this situation than you do...which gives her all the power and you all the vulnerability. I am telling you this because I am typically the one who cares less about the guy and relationships I get involved in. There's only been a couple of guys I actually cared about losing. All the others I could give or take...whatever.

You ARE getting attached and you're trying to pretend you aren't. You're talking about this woman constantly and you are already changing things to suit her. You're going to get hurt if you keep it up.

 

[Immaculate]

Originally posted by Wyldfire
Immaculate...this woman cares less about this situation than you do...which gives her all the power and you all the vulnerability. I am telling you this because I am typically the one who cares less about the guy and relationships I get involved in. There's only been a couple of guys I actually cared about losing. All the others I could give or take...whatever.

You ARE getting attached and you're trying to pretend you aren't. You're talking about this woman constantly and you are already changing things to suit her. You're going to get hurt if you keep it up.

nah ... I'm going to ask her one last time if she never wants to hang out with me again. If she says no, I'll say no problem.
You will never see me, hear from me, or see me online again. Goodbye.

 

[Wyldfire]

*shakes head*

 

[Immaculate]

Originally posted by Wyldfire
*shakes head*

what? What else should I do?

 

[Wyldfire]

Originally posted by Immaculate
what? What else should I do?

You keep claiming you're done with her but you keep going back again. I don't believe for a minute that you're going to stop...in fact...you are probably already playing this scenario in your mind of her being your girlfriend.

If you don't mind letting her be in control you might be able to have a relationships with her...but her personality is clearly stronger than yours is. Her game is way better, too...

 

[Immaculate]

No seriously, if she says she never wants to hang out again I'm going to cut her off. I already lost her #, and I'll delete her from AIM. Adios! Hope you can find a guy that lasts more than 30 seconds LOL

 

[Immaculate]

Well, she answered me. Here's her response

"Yes. Delete. Thanks."

So I have completely cut her off.

Oh well.

It was fun while it lasted.

 

[Slickster]

As Jerry and George from "Seinfeld" would say........"She's got hand."

And now that's all you have too.

Sorry Mac I don't mean to be rude or anything like that. You do seem to have a good attitude and I truly hope that you don't give a shyt about that chick. It's tough to really know what she was like from your posts but from the info you've given I think you can do a lot better.

Like you say its a learning experience and that is all that really matters.

Now for your sake, hopefully you won't be seeing any strange rashes and such........

 

[Immaculate]

I will never contact her again, but who wants to bet me I get an email from her within a week. Well, she's going out to Cali for 2 weeks Sunday, so maybe not...but whatever. I don't care. NEXT!

 

[Ricky]

You know what bothers me?

That there are thousands of girls out there like this one.

You take em home bang em good several times and then they are the ones not wanting a relationship.

Player Supreme was right when he talks about these type of women as W H O R E S

It is hard to believe, and Immaculate I can totally relate to what you are going to.

The way it is nowaday, it's way easier to get a girl in bed, then to get her to cook, clean or show you some respect.

I've been out with a few girls like this, believe me they will never ever make a guy happy. Be glad that she didn't sink her claws into you and make your life miserable.

This women is ****ed. Immaculate did nothing wrong.