Immaculate
Master Don Juan
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I could have played it better and had a f@ck buddy, but I really liked her personality and I didn't want to risk catching feelings for this girl.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Ah ha! Yes I went back , but I did NOT put out for her. And I did NOT stay the night. She wanted it but I refused. I gave HER the let's just be friends line...hahahaha... freakin nympho's....Originally posted by Wyldfire
Told you that you would go right back...
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I cut her off because she emailed me and said "I never want to see you again"Originally posted by ketostix
You leave out a lot of details. You went from banging her to her cutting you off (how, why?), to her asking you over again, all withing a day or two..I guess she's just nuts.
sigh , you belong there.Originally posted by Immaculate
LOL
I'm bored so I just sent this W HORE a message
"I wonder Why I could never get off with you... I never had this problem with any other girls...especially last night.
Things that make you go hmmmmmm..."
LOL
B1tch... put her in her place. She already was like "is there simething wrong with me" LOL
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
LOL...that`s the last twist needed in this sordid tale.Originally posted by swampwiz
I took a look at her pics. She seems to have a bit of a masculine frame - like a man who would purposely let his muscles waste away a bit. And her facial structure seems to be a little on the strong side.
She made a reference to something in Bangkok. In case you didn't know, that's the leading place for transgendering operations.
Something to think about.