"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Le Croissant

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Hey guys,

I've got an obstacle. In my last thread, I've mentioned that my girlfriend dumped me. Now I found out that it's very possible that she likes a really old friend. I don't even know him and still his last name just rings a bell. His family belongs to the socially and financially elite in this city. Right now he's in Boston for high school and she's also from Boston! He came here for the holidays and I think this is the reason why we broke up. Judging by his picture, he looks like some spoiled rebellious rich kid.

Another problem is that she can always see him when she returns to Boston for the summer and after high school.

I've also found out that she's also dated a rich guy with a Ferrari, but she ended up not liking him after he criticised her.

Okay, she's not like those obnoxious popular high school girls I've seen in the states. She's different. The question is what makes me different? What asset do I have that they don't? I don't have the wealth yet (but I'm aiming for it!) and the prestige of a well known family.

Thanks in advanced!
Le Croissant

P.S. I'm not going to just sob over this, but I'm gonna' move on and learn from this. :rockon:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

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What makes you different? Well for one, you are here, and I think that will make a difference. Also, if a chicks a golddigger, =not a lot you can/should do... BUT, in this chicks case, she should get tired of the AFC behaivior from the rich kid's hecka quick.
 
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Norbert said:
What makes you different? Well for one, you are here, and I think that will make a difference. Also, if a chicks a golddigger, =not a lot you can/should do... BUT, in this chicks case, she should get tired of the AFC behaivior from the rich kid's hecka quick.
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The problem's that he's kind of an old friend. Yeah, maybe I should move on.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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