"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Le Croissant

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Hey guys,

I've got an obstacle. In my last thread, I've mentioned that my girlfriend dumped me. Now I found out that it's very possible that she likes a really old friend. I don't even know him and still his last name just rings a bell. His family belongs to the socially and financially elite in this city. Right now he's in Boston for high school and she's also from Boston! He came here for the holidays and I think this is the reason why we broke up. Judging by his picture, he looks like some spoiled rebellious rich kid.

Another problem is that she can always see him when she returns to Boston for the summer and after high school.

I've also found out that she's also dated a rich guy with a Ferrari, but she ended up not liking him after he criticised her.

Okay, she's not like those obnoxious popular high school girls I've seen in the states. She's different. The question is what makes me different? What asset do I have that they don't? I don't have the wealth yet (but I'm aiming for it!) and the prestige of a well known family.

Thanks in advanced!
Le Croissant

P.S. I'm not going to just sob over this, but I'm gonna' move on and learn from this. :rockon:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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What makes you different? Well for one, you are here, and I think that will make a difference. Also, if a chicks a golddigger, =not a lot you can/should do... BUT, in this chicks case, she should get tired of the AFC behaivior from the rich kid's hecka quick.
 
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Norbert said:
What makes you different? Well for one, you are here, and I think that will make a difference. Also, if a chicks a golddigger, =not a lot you can/should do... BUT, in this chicks case, she should get tired of the AFC behaivior from the rich kid's hecka quick.
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The problem's that he's kind of an old friend. Yeah, maybe I should move on.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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