"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Le Croissant

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Hey guys,

I've got an obstacle. In my last thread, I've mentioned that my girlfriend dumped me. Now I found out that it's very possible that she likes a really old friend. I don't even know him and still his last name just rings a bell. His family belongs to the socially and financially elite in this city. Right now he's in Boston for high school and she's also from Boston! He came here for the holidays and I think this is the reason why we broke up. Judging by his picture, he looks like some spoiled rebellious rich kid.

Another problem is that she can always see him when she returns to Boston for the summer and after high school.

I've also found out that she's also dated a rich guy with a Ferrari, but she ended up not liking him after he criticised her.

Okay, she's not like those obnoxious popular high school girls I've seen in the states. She's different. The question is what makes me different? What asset do I have that they don't? I don't have the wealth yet (but I'm aiming for it!) and the prestige of a well known family.

Thanks in advanced!
Le Croissant

P.S. I'm not going to just sob over this, but I'm gonna' move on and learn from this. :rockon:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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What makes you different? Well for one, you are here, and I think that will make a difference. Also, if a chicks a golddigger, =not a lot you can/should do... BUT, in this chicks case, she should get tired of the AFC behaivior from the rich kid's hecka quick.
 
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Norbert said:
What makes you different? Well for one, you are here, and I think that will make a difference. Also, if a chicks a golddigger, =not a lot you can/should do... BUT, in this chicks case, she should get tired of the AFC behaivior from the rich kid's hecka quick.
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The problem's that he's kind of an old friend. Yeah, maybe I should move on.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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