"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Le Croissant

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Hey guys,

I've got an obstacle. In my last thread, I've mentioned that my girlfriend dumped me. Now I found out that it's very possible that she likes a really old friend. I don't even know him and still his last name just rings a bell. His family belongs to the socially and financially elite in this city. Right now he's in Boston for high school and she's also from Boston! He came here for the holidays and I think this is the reason why we broke up. Judging by his picture, he looks like some spoiled rebellious rich kid.

Another problem is that she can always see him when she returns to Boston for the summer and after high school.

I've also found out that she's also dated a rich guy with a Ferrari, but she ended up not liking him after he criticised her.

Okay, she's not like those obnoxious popular high school girls I've seen in the states. She's different. The question is what makes me different? What asset do I have that they don't? I don't have the wealth yet (but I'm aiming for it!) and the prestige of a well known family.

Thanks in advanced!
Le Croissant

P.S. I'm not going to just sob over this, but I'm gonna' move on and learn from this. :rockon:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What makes you different? Well for one, you are here, and I think that will make a difference. Also, if a chicks a golddigger, =not a lot you can/should do... BUT, in this chicks case, she should get tired of the AFC behaivior from the rich kid's hecka quick.
 
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Norbert said:
What makes you different? Well for one, you are here, and I think that will make a difference. Also, if a chicks a golddigger, =not a lot you can/should do... BUT, in this chicks case, she should get tired of the AFC behaivior from the rich kid's hecka quick.
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The problem's that he's kind of an old friend. Yeah, maybe I should move on.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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