Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Obsessed

davester88

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Chill guys, it is not me that is obsessed.

The girl I'm after, she's always worried about her becoming too obsessed with him, and he is already so obsessed with her....I havent talked to her in a couple of days tryin the ganji method, she initates convo with me on msn and I just don't respond cause I have nothing real to say...

any ideas/ tips would be greatly, greatly appreciated....

Thanks!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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AC/DC

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Originally posted by davester88
The girl I'm after, she's always worried about her becoming too obsessed with him, and he!
WHO ARE ALL THESE PEOPLE?!?
 

comic_relief

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what is this jumbled mess that you wrote? Is this a thread. Can you restate your question?

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davester88

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lol sorry for not being clear.

Bottom line is the girl I like, is worried about becoming obsessed with her boyfriend, but he is already obsessed with her....Should I wait for them to breakup or just move on...I have been ignoring her as of late ( ignoring her texts, IM'S, etc..)

Any thoughts/ideas
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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