"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Obsessed

davester88

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Chill guys, it is not me that is obsessed.

The girl I'm after, she's always worried about her becoming too obsessed with him, and he is already so obsessed with her....I havent talked to her in a couple of days tryin the ganji method, she initates convo with me on msn and I just don't respond cause I have nothing real to say...

any ideas/ tips would be greatly, greatly appreciated....

Thanks!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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AC/DC

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Originally posted by davester88
The girl I'm after, she's always worried about her becoming too obsessed with him, and he!
WHO ARE ALL THESE PEOPLE?!?
 

comic_relief

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what is this jumbled mess that you wrote? Is this a thread. Can you restate your question?

comic_relief
 

davester88

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lol sorry for not being clear.

Bottom line is the girl I like, is worried about becoming obsessed with her boyfriend, but he is already obsessed with her....Should I wait for them to breakup or just move on...I have been ignoring her as of late ( ignoring her texts, IM'S, etc..)

Any thoughts/ideas
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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