Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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davester88

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Chill guys, it is not me that is obsessed.

The girl I'm after, she's always worried about her becoming too obsessed with him, and he is already so obsessed with her....I havent talked to her in a couple of days tryin the ganji method, she initates convo with me on msn and I just don't respond cause I have nothing real to say...

any ideas/ tips would be greatly, greatly appreciated....

Thanks!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by davester88
The girl I'm after, she's always worried about her becoming too obsessed with him, and he!
WHO ARE ALL THESE PEOPLE?!?
 

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what is this jumbled mess that you wrote? Is this a thread. Can you restate your question?

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lol sorry for not being clear.

Bottom line is the girl I like, is worried about becoming obsessed with her boyfriend, but he is already obsessed with her....Should I wait for them to breakup or just move on...I have been ignoring her as of late ( ignoring her texts, IM'S, etc..)

Any thoughts/ideas
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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