“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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davester88

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Chill guys, it is not me that is obsessed.

The girl I'm after, she's always worried about her becoming too obsessed with him, and he is already so obsessed with her....I havent talked to her in a couple of days tryin the ganji method, she initates convo with me on msn and I just don't respond cause I have nothing real to say...

any ideas/ tips would be greatly, greatly appreciated....

Thanks!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Originally posted by davester88
The girl I'm after, she's always worried about her becoming too obsessed with him, and he!
WHO ARE ALL THESE PEOPLE?!?
 

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what is this jumbled mess that you wrote? Is this a thread. Can you restate your question?

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lol sorry for not being clear.

Bottom line is the girl I like, is worried about becoming obsessed with her boyfriend, but he is already obsessed with her....Should I wait for them to breakup or just move on...I have been ignoring her as of late ( ignoring her texts, IM'S, etc..)

Any thoughts/ideas
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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