"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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davester88

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Chill guys, it is not me that is obsessed.

The girl I'm after, she's always worried about her becoming too obsessed with him, and he is already so obsessed with her....I havent talked to her in a couple of days tryin the ganji method, she initates convo with me on msn and I just don't respond cause I have nothing real to say...

any ideas/ tips would be greatly, greatly appreciated....

Thanks!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by davester88
The girl I'm after, she's always worried about her becoming too obsessed with him, and he!
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WHO ARE ALL THESE PEOPLE?!?
 
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comic_relief

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what is this jumbled mess that you wrote? Is this a thread. Can you restate your question?

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lol sorry for not being clear.

Bottom line is the girl I like, is worried about becoming obsessed with her boyfriend, but he is already obsessed with her....Should I wait for them to breakup or just move on...I have been ignoring her as of late ( ignoring her texts, IM'S, etc..)

Any thoughts/ideas
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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