The Tucson metro area has ~1 million residents. For a city of its size, Tucson is rather underwhelming for both employment and as a mating marketplace. Tucson is not an easy place for a man to get his penis wet. There are 3 scenarios where a man can have success in Tucson. All 3 scenarios have drawbacks.
1. You can get laid in Tucson if you are a University of Arizona student. If this is the case, you are likely 18-29 and childless. You're either in undergraduate (mostly 18-23) or graduate school (22-29).
If you want to know about the sex lives of male University of Arizona students, read the initial post from @Jesse Pinkman
in the thread below. The typical guy isn't doing that well.
I thought I'd share this as someone who went to a party school and was in a fraternity there as well. Not wanting to give too much about myself but I went to UGA and graduated a few years ago. While Athens has its hot girls, I do feel like the quality got worse every year due to the admission...
2. You are Hispanic. You are likely a blue collar worker/manual laborer or service sector worker. You are pursuing Hispanic women with less than a college education. This type of pairing commonly happens in the lower middle class or lower areas. At best, this happens in the middle middle class for some successful male tradesmen or pink collar Hispanic women. Some of these Hispanic guys don't have major standards. There are a lot of single moms in this group, especially if age 25+. If you are a Hispanic guy in Tucson who is middle class and lower, there's a decent chance you are a baby daddy with baby mama drama, especially if you are 25+. Overall, I think these males are likely the most sexually successful in Tucson as a group. Only the top tier University of Arizona males are more successful than these Hispanic men, but U of A students as a whole aren't getting laid as much as non-college educated Hispanics in Tucson.
College educated Hispanics are not that common in Tucson. It's possible to see some male Hispanic U of A students getting with female Hispanic U of A students. College educated Hispanics who are both post college age and not U of A affiliated are less common. If you were a college educated Hispanic male and you wanted to date college educated Hispanic females in Tucson, that's a thinner market. You might move to Phoenix in that case.
3. You are a pre-retiree or retiree male. You're 55+ and pursuing 50+ females in the middle class or higher neighborhoods. You might be meeting these 50+ women through retiree type activities. If you are a 55+ male pursuing 50+ women in Tucson, you are either divorced or widowed with adult children. The women that you are dating likely have adult children as well.
If you're a 25-54 year old male not affiliated with University of Arizona and you're pursuing 25-54 year old not U of A affiliated women in Tucson, it's going to be difficult to get laid. You'd better hope that you already have a wife and maybe a boring family life already. Maybe you're monogamously married wife lets you fucck her twice a month. This is even more difficult if you are White and often going for other White women. This partially explains @sangheilios
and his struggles in Tucson. He's not a current U of A student and he's not plugged into the U of A pusssy scene. That makes for a thinner market for him, even being 6'4" and somewhat muscular.