Observations on Atlanta's scene.

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The southern inflation theory is true. Most people leaving your big 5 states(California, New York, Illinois, Michigan, and Pennsylvania) are the weakest links. Up and moving to a completely different state is not something your average stable person would consider doing.
Nevermind that those states are getting worse with each passing month.

Who knew stable was the new insane?
 

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Update for Nashville: So Nashville so far is a shvt show and in decline right now. The quality of girls here is noticeably lower and guys are dating down here at noticeable levels. It was bad before I left, but girls the Chads would only fvck 49ers during the eyes of night. Now, you are seeing Chads and overall decent looking men in public with mediocre looking women.

Next, the overall vibe and energy of the city seems to have topped off because everywhere is less crowded and lacking that Nashville vibe.
 

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Update for Nashville: So Nashville so far is a shvt show and in decline right now. The quality of girls here is noticeably lower and guys are dating down here at noticeable levels. It was bad before I left, but girls the Chads would only fvck 49ers during the eyes of night. Now, you are seeing Chads and overall decent looking men in public with mediocre looking women.

Next, the overall vibe and energy of the city seems to have topped off because everywhere is less crowded and lacking that Nashville vibe.
Where did you go in Nashville if you don’t mind me asking?

I go up most weekends and I’ve had a pretty good experience.

Totally agree about the c0ckblocks and b*tchy friends tho

Personally, I think Nashville trumps Atlanta but either is viable for game, really.
 

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Where did you go in Nashville if you don’t mind me asking?

I go up most weekends and I’ve had a pretty good experience.

Totally agree about the c0ckblocks and b*tchy friends tho

Personally, I think Nashville trumps Atlanta but either is viable for game, really.
other than the wedding, I’ve been in east Nashville mainly and the sylvan park area.
 

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other than the wedding, I’ve been in east Nashville mainly and the sylvan park area.
Hit Broadway and Midtown in one night then let me know what you think lol.

Broadway >>> Midtown though.

Oh and do yourself a favor and just pay for the parking, I had to learn that one the hard way when there were two boots on my vehicle lol.
 

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So Nashville so far is a shvt show and in decline right now.
Nashville has become a hub of bachelorette parties in the last 5-10 years. Do the women who travel to Nashville for bachelorette parties have random sex with local Nashville men? A lot of the women who travel for bachelorette parties have boyfriends/husbands at home. It could go either way if they are DTF or not.

How has Nashville being a hub for bachelorette parties changed the Nashville scene?

Next, the overall vibe and energy of the city seems to have topped off because everywhere is less crowded and lacking that Nashville vibe.
How is this possible? People have been moving to Nashville in large numbers.
 

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Hit Broadway and Midtown in one night then let me know what you think lol.

Broadway >>> Midtown though.

Oh and do yourself a favor and just pay for the parking, I had to learn that one the hard way when there were two boots on my vehicle lol.
Im from Nashville, just revisiting after last year. Midtown had the best crowd overall but it was either a hit or miss. I am not a Broadway hater, but that’s something I could only do once every 2 months lol.
 

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Nashville has become a hub of bachelorette parties in the last 5-10 years. Do the women who travel to Nashville for bachelorette parties have random sex with local Nashville men? A lot of the women who travel for bachelorette parties have boyfriends/husbands at home. It could go either way if they are DTF or not.

How has Nashville being a hub for bachelorette parties changed the Nashville scene?
It’s possible with smaller groups, but you are going against a group of 5 plus girls most of the time crammed in some Hotel or Airbnb. Even if you get a drunk one, her group will usually ****block you. At most you make out with some drunk skank and get a number.

How is this possible? People have been moving to Nashville in large numbers.
I think people are starting to cave in to the overpriced COL and moving to the suburbs. The prime parts of Nashville are really expensive. Before I moved, I was paying 1000 for an okay spot within the city county in a comfortable area, my same 1br apt is now 2000 with the same amenities. Yes, 2k is not a lot for LA or NYC but that’s a lot for Tennessee.
 

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It’s possible with smaller groups, but you are going against a group of 5 plus girls most of the time crammed in some Hotel or Airbnb. Even if you get a drunk one, her group will usually ****block you. At most you make out with some drunk skank and get a number.
I would think women 25+ going to a bachelor party in Nashville would be no more than 2 to a room, if not have their own hotel rooms. If privacy is lacking, that would affect the possibility of sex.

Cocckblocks are very common with bachelorette parties, so what you're saying is generally sound.

A phone number would generally be useless with a Nashville bachelorette party group. Most of the Nashville bachelorette parties are out-of-town gals so the Nashville local man has no use for a phone number from an out-of-towner. It's either same night sex or nothing in that situation. If a Nashville bachelorette group is a a bunch of Nashville locals, then a local Nashville man has a small chance of making that turn into something.

In most cases, bachelorette parties are filled with attention whorres and don't even have much sex. There are always those stories of bachelorette party attending women having sex as a result of the bachelorette party. Additionally, there are stories where the bride-to-be has sex.

I think people are starting to cave in to the overpriced COL and moving to the suburbs. The prime parts of Nashville are really expensive. Before I moved, I was paying 1000 for an okay spot within the city county in a comfortable area, my same 1br apt is now 2000 with the same amenities. Yes, 2k is not a lot for LA or NYC but that’s a lot for Tennessee.
$2,000/month for a 1 bedroom apartment in a good part of Nashville is not a good deal. Nashville isn't the only city where that's happening.. I think it's also happening in Atlanta and some other cities too.
 

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In most cases, bachelorette parties are filled with attention whorres and don't even have much sex. There are always those stories of bachelorette party attending women having sex as a result of the bachelorette party. Additionally, there are stories where the bride-to-be has sex.
They are over exaggerated imho
 

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In most cases, bachelorette parties are filled with attention whorres and don't even have much sex. There are always those stories of bachelorette party attending women having sex as a result of the bachelorette party. Additionally, there are stories where the bride-to-be has sex.
They are over exaggerated imho
We agree on this. The sisters and friends of the bride-to-be aren't that DTF in general. Groups are often too large to be productive.
 

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so this morning I approached a young woman about directions to a coffee shop I couldn’t find. She was a solid 6 at best, nothing to brag about but I’d still lay the pipe on her. She was friendly & polite and asked me if I was from Florida due to my rental plate and I explained no so and so. Turns out she is going to the same coffee shop to meet some 6ft 4 Chad that is above her league which just reconfirms my post about Nashville :rofl:
 

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Turns out she is going to the same coffee shop to meet some 6ft 4 Chad that is above her league which just reconfirms my post about Nashville :rofl:
How do you know she was meeting a 6'4" Chad? My guess is that you saw her at that coffee shop. A Tuesday morning date seems strange. A Tuesday morning get together indicates an already established couple with somewhat of a flexible working schedule.

I approached a young woman about directions to a coffee shop I couldn’t find.
Google and Apple Maps have sort of killed those types of interactions. I'm surprised that someone would even field that kind of approach today.

She was a solid 6 at best, nothing to brag about but I’d still lay the pipe on her. She was friendly & polite and asked me if I was from Florida due to my rental plate and I explained no so and so.
That's not a bad interaction, but it's the kind of interaction that often fizzles out fast due to the presence of a relationship in her life.
 

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How do you know she was meeting a 6'4" Chad? My guess is that you saw her at that coffee shop. A Tuesday morning date seems strange. A Tuesday morning get together indicates an already established couple with somewhat of a flexible working schedule.
Because I saw them in line really close together and they sat at the same table.


Google and Apple Maps have sort of killed those types of interactions. I'm surprised that someone would even field that kind of approach today.
Have you had this backfire on you or something?
 

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Google and Apple Maps have sort of killed those types of interactions. I'm surprised that someone would even field that kind of approach today.
Have you had this backfire on you or something?
No, I haven't. I could imagine a pretentious White woman in a city like Nashville, Atlanta, Dallas, or Phoenix being rude about being asked for directions. I sense that by 2023 there's an expectation that everyone has access to a mapping application and there's not a need to ever ask anyone for directions.
 

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We agree on this. The sisters and friends of the bride-to-be aren't that DTF in general. Groups are often too large to be productive.
+1, agreed.

You’re better off approaching smaller groups, though larger groups can be done.

My wing and I always say “it only takes one c0ckblock” lol
 

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You’re better off approaching smaller groups, though larger groups can be done.

My wing and I always say “it only takes one c0ckblock” lol
Roosh had an idea that he would only approach groups of 3 or less. Since women rarely go out alone, that means Roosh was mainly dealing with women in groups of 2-3. Roosh promoted the idea that women were more approachable and serious about meeting men if the group size was only 2 or 3.

Since many Nashville venues have been overrun with large bachelorette party groups, this would work to the advantage of Atlanta venues.

Atlanta does not have a good reputation for its White women. As a White man who primarily pursues White women, I can't imagine that I would be greatly excited about dating in Atlanta. White women are also in shorter supply in Atlanta, which inflates their values. In general, White women do not need another reason to inflate their own values in their minds.
 

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I would not see Nashville as a city with that many "Chads" or alpha males. The place is cringey and full of losers that think tatts and trying to make a career happen as a musician after you haven't made it big at 30 is being "cool". What I dislike about most southern cities is just how two-faced and paralleled their culture is which is why I stay away from the Bible Belt.

Take Atlanta for instance, on one hand you have hip hop, the hipsters of Midtown, the frat party post college, and the strip clubs. Then on the other hand you have the Jesus Act that people put on for everyone. The "Good Christian" that goes to church every Sunday.

You cannot even game in peace because everyone is ready to go from ratchet club rat to "Jesus Girl" on the drop of a dime. I doubt these people have read the entire Bible either.

It is one of the things I absolutely despise about The South. People in the region are just not very honest or real. You get a lot of fake Goody Two Shoe types and it floods into the cities too.

Southern Guys are also quite creepy. Like these dudes will play Nice Gentleman in front of girls but will take advantage of a passed out chick or do something creepy fast. If not that, they are brash and very confrontational because they don't get laid and if they do, they know they have to rely on Good Ole Boy Bubba Status to do it.

It just ruins the freaking vibe of the cities in the Bible Belt. Everyone is downright fake as they come.

At least in the Northeast, Miami, and even in California, people are more up front about their desires. Down South, it is all masked with the Fake Jesus Act.
 

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It just ruins the freaking vibe of the cities in the Bible Belt. Everyone is downright fake as they come.

At least in the Northeast, Miami, and even in California, people are more up front about their desires. Down South, it is all masked with the Fake Jesus Act.
There is a lot of fakeness in Southern/Sun Belt cities. The fakeness differs from market to market.

People in the Northeast are not fake. I find that refreshing as a guy who has lived in 2 Sun Belt cities with too much fakeness.

Take Atlanta for instance, on one hand you have hip hop, the hipsters of Midtown, the frat party post college, and the strip clubs. Then on the other hand you have the Jesus Act that people put on for everyone. The "Good Christian" that goes to church every Sunday.

You cannot even game in peace because everyone is ready to go from ratchet club rat to "Jesus Girl" on the drop of a dime. I doubt these people have read the entire Bible either.

It is one of the things I absolutely despise about The South. People in the region are just not very honest or real. You get a lot of fake Goody Two Shoe types and it floods into the cities too.

Southern Guys are also quite creepy. Like these dudes will play Nice Gentleman in front of girls but will take advantage of a passed out chick or do something creepy fast. If not that, they are brash and very confrontational because they don't get laid and if they do, they know they have to rely on Good Ole Boy Bubba Status to do it.
I'd like to hear more examples of how a woman transforms from ratchet club rat to "Jesus Girl" instantaneously. I haven't seen too much of that in Dallas but I'm sure it happens here too.

You used Southern and confrontational in the same sentence. A lot of Southerners come off as non-confrontational to me. In general, a lot of the Millennial generation comes off as non-confrontation in a passive-aggressive manner.

Atlanta has long been known for its strip clubs. The best way to meet an Atlanta stripper is to meet her when she's off duty, like strippers in any other American city.

Good point about the creepiness of Southern men. I'm betting you saw that both at University of Georgia off campus party scene and in the Atlanta nightlife scene.
 

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I would not see Nashville as a city with that many "Chads" or alpha males. The place is cringey and full of losers that think tatts and trying to make a career happen as a musician after you haven't made it big at 30 is being "cool". What I dislike about most southern cities is just how two-faced and paralleled their culture is which is why I stay away from the Bible Belt.
Yeah, the Nashville Chad or ideal guy for women is more on the pretty boy/hippy hybrid. Usually, the guy has a Jesus look or yuppy Luigi look going on. These guys don't fit the stereotypical alpha male that is portrayed by the manosphere at all. Some do have decent jobs, but a lot of them are barista bums like you said.
 
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