"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Has anyone noticed that the most undeveloped trait of PU is common sense?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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RedZone

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Most people lack common sense...not just people in the PUA community.
 
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PapiChulo

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"common sense" doesn't really apply here at all. What do you mean in particular?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Common sense in regards to woman is what the problem is, society has programmed most men to act like AFCs around girls and buy them flowers etc, this site is helping to reprogramme guys common and logic sense and ignore what we were hard wired to be like. Common sense was telling us we were doing something wrong with woman - somewhere along the line we were ****ing up... and so, one day we go on the internet and BOOM. DJ Bible, whats this??? GOLD!

LOL
 
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I was kind of referring to stuff like mysterys "kiss close" which negates common sense. When you realize that she likes you it's easier, to just ease into it. Also with numbers it's literally as easy as using either your environment or just talking about what your going to do that week and invite her out. Then there's getting sexaul with women and a lOt of those gurus get that wrong.
 
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Murse said:
Common sense in regards to woman is what the problem is, society has programmed most men to act like AFCs around girls and buy them flowers etc, this site is helping to reprogramme guys common and logic sense and ignore what we were hard wired to be like. Common sense was telling us we were doing something wrong with woman - somewhere along the line we were ****ing up... and so, one day we go on the internet and BOOM. DJ Bible, whats this??? GOLD!

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I have never done that. Yet again, I did well with women before the community.
 
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RedZone said:
Most people lack common sense...not just people in the PUA community.
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Agreed. I wasnt referring to the whole community, just a lot of the guys I've met up with. When I used to hang out with layer guys, they completed lacked it to the point that a lot of them I believe suffered from autism spectrum disorders. Even a lot of the coaches I've met, are the same way.
 
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I think many of us fall into the trap of giving "one size fits all" advice. Now, I will admit that many basics here are universal (i.e. don't smother her with communications, don't give her gifts too early, etc.), but many others are not. I see members here giving the same advice regarding an 18 year-old extroverted girl who likes to go clubbing, and a 38 year-old woman who is introverted and an experienced business professional. Sorry, but there is a huge (and obvious) difference between the two.

The Gambler
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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omega05

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common sense can't be applied to all situations. I mean we're dealing with women here
 
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PapiChulo said:
"common sense" doesn't really apply here at all. What do you mean in particular?
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take for instance I say its common sense for you to understand that you probably shouldn't go for a make out with a girl who looks like she isn't interested. :nono: Ive seen guys I've met off forums in my area do this.
 
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Fly By Night

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It's common sense to know that if a girl says she has a bf, she is sending you a hint that she is unavailable/uninterested. But pua knowledge says that you can use push/pull and C&F to bring out her inner slut or something along those lines.
 
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Bossman90 said:
Has anyone noticed that the most undeveloped trait of PU is common sense?
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No, it's more that too many guys believe in NAWALT.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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RedZone said:
Most people lack common sense...not just people in the PUA community.
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+1.
 
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