"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Recently I've hit a road block in my physical development. I've lost about 25 pounds but I just can't get defined abs. I was told by an associate at work that if I want to start to get the toned abs that most women are attracted to, I need to work my obliques.

I've just been doing 3 sets of crunches at 50 reps a pop. And then 25 leg lifts for three sets as well.

I try to keep my diet reasonable as well, as I only take in 1500 calories a day. I spread out my meals into 5 meals a day at 300 calories...to speed up my metablolism.

Any help or advice for a man looking to reach the next level?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Shop until i die? What's that about?

Too many reps on abs. Less reps, more weight.
Eat more. 1500 calories is a joke.
 

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I eat 1500 calories BEFORE breakfast...
 

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Is your bodyfat % low enough for a 6-pack? I lost almost 40 pounds back when I started exercising, but it was still never enough to get visible abs. Getting a 6-pack is about having low enough bodyfat, not having enough muscle. Eating tons more calories isn't going to get you a 6-pack.
 
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Master Bates said:
Is your bodyfat % low enough for a 6-pack? I lost almost 40 pounds back when I started exercising, but it was still never enough to get visible abs. Getting a 6-pack is about having low enough bodyfat, not having enough muscle. Eating tons more calories isn't going to get you a 6-pack.
Exactly, which is why I limit myself to 1500 calories a day.

So should I be trying to lose more weight before I think about getting a six pack?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Sixpack = Protein + Water + Diet + Exercise

Your mission is to burn off calories, and lose close to all of your fat so your muscles appear to pop out more.
So basically you need a low intake of food, but enough protein to sustain your training routine.

Fat = bad, so don't use something like peanut butter for example as your protein.
 

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timed carb diets, carb cycled diets, anabolic diet will get you a 6 pack assuming you do the cardio and do your weighted ab exercises
 
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EFFORT said:
timed carb diets, carb cycled diets, anabolic diet will get you a 6 pack assuming you do the cardio and do your weighted ab exercises

cool, what kind of "weighted ab excercises" do you think I should do?
 

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Why do you say that?
I think he meant "fat = bad" for getting a six-pack. If your aim is to get a 6-pack, fat really is your enemy.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Master Bates said:
I think he meant "fat = bad" for getting a six-pack. If your aim is to get a 6-pack, fat really is your enemy.
Why do you say that?
 

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shop until I die! said:
cool, what kind of "weighted ab excercises" do you think I should do?
weighted situps, pulley abs, weighted ab machines, leg raises, weighted pull ups


seems to me like your first question should be about the diets though since thats basically everything
 

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Master Bates said:
I think he meant "fat = bad" for getting a six-pack. If your aim is to get a 6-pack, fat really is your enemy.
do some reading before you post stuff thats out right wrong like this.
 

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EFFORT said:
do some reading before you post stuff thats out right wrong like this.
wtf, lol. I must not have read the original post or something, I thought he was talking about bodyfat, not fat in foods.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Think we're getting confused between dietary fat and body fat here.
 

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I don't think people have enough aerobic activity in their workouts and their sources of nutrition makes abdominal definition difficult.
 

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you need super low bodyfat for a sixpack:
so you don't want to take in any dietary fat,
because it will contribute to your bodyfat.

the exercise part is to help lose your bodyfat by burning it off.

additionally, you need to eat healthy foods... preferably fruits and vegetables for your natural vitamins and minerals etc., with a good amount of protein on the side for your muscle buildup for workouts, also you should mainly drink water, or fat free milk.

The aim of this isn't to lose weight, but to lose fat and build up your muscles so they just stick out there and show themselves.
 

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Grand Wizzard Alamar said:
you don't want to take in any dietary fat,
because it will contribute to your bodyfat.
Why do you say that?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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