"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Recently I've hit a road block in my physical development. I've lost about 25 pounds but I just can't get defined abs. I was told by an associate at work that if I want to start to get the toned abs that most women are attracted to, I need to work my obliques.

I've just been doing 3 sets of crunches at 50 reps a pop. And then 25 leg lifts for three sets as well.

I try to keep my diet reasonable as well, as I only take in 1500 calories a day. I spread out my meals into 5 meals a day at 300 calories...to speed up my metablolism.

Any help or advice for a man looking to reach the next level?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Shop until i die? What's that about?

Too many reps on abs. Less reps, more weight.
Eat more. 1500 calories is a joke.
 

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I eat 1500 calories BEFORE breakfast...
 

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Is your bodyfat % low enough for a 6-pack? I lost almost 40 pounds back when I started exercising, but it was still never enough to get visible abs. Getting a 6-pack is about having low enough bodyfat, not having enough muscle. Eating tons more calories isn't going to get you a 6-pack.
 
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Master Bates said:
Is your bodyfat % low enough for a 6-pack? I lost almost 40 pounds back when I started exercising, but it was still never enough to get visible abs. Getting a 6-pack is about having low enough bodyfat, not having enough muscle. Eating tons more calories isn't going to get you a 6-pack.
Exactly, which is why I limit myself to 1500 calories a day.

So should I be trying to lose more weight before I think about getting a six pack?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Sixpack = Protein + Water + Diet + Exercise

Your mission is to burn off calories, and lose close to all of your fat so your muscles appear to pop out more.
So basically you need a low intake of food, but enough protein to sustain your training routine.

Fat = bad, so don't use something like peanut butter for example as your protein.
 

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timed carb diets, carb cycled diets, anabolic diet will get you a 6 pack assuming you do the cardio and do your weighted ab exercises
 
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EFFORT said:
timed carb diets, carb cycled diets, anabolic diet will get you a 6 pack assuming you do the cardio and do your weighted ab exercises

cool, what kind of "weighted ab excercises" do you think I should do?
 

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Why do you say that?
I think he meant "fat = bad" for getting a six-pack. If your aim is to get a 6-pack, fat really is your enemy.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Master Bates said:
I think he meant "fat = bad" for getting a six-pack. If your aim is to get a 6-pack, fat really is your enemy.
Why do you say that?
 

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shop until I die! said:
cool, what kind of "weighted ab excercises" do you think I should do?
weighted situps, pulley abs, weighted ab machines, leg raises, weighted pull ups


seems to me like your first question should be about the diets though since thats basically everything
 

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Master Bates said:
I think he meant "fat = bad" for getting a six-pack. If your aim is to get a 6-pack, fat really is your enemy.
do some reading before you post stuff thats out right wrong like this.
 

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EFFORT said:
do some reading before you post stuff thats out right wrong like this.
wtf, lol. I must not have read the original post or something, I thought he was talking about bodyfat, not fat in foods.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Think we're getting confused between dietary fat and body fat here.
 

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I don't think people have enough aerobic activity in their workouts and their sources of nutrition makes abdominal definition difficult.
 

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you need super low bodyfat for a sixpack:
so you don't want to take in any dietary fat,
because it will contribute to your bodyfat.

the exercise part is to help lose your bodyfat by burning it off.

additionally, you need to eat healthy foods... preferably fruits and vegetables for your natural vitamins and minerals etc., with a good amount of protein on the side for your muscle buildup for workouts, also you should mainly drink water, or fat free milk.

The aim of this isn't to lose weight, but to lose fat and build up your muscles so they just stick out there and show themselves.
 

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Grand Wizzard Alamar said:
you don't want to take in any dietary fat,
because it will contribute to your bodyfat.
Why do you say that?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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