"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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O.k. what should I do?

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If you read my other post you know my situtation. I asked a girl out who made a remark that she liked another guy but wasnt sure. I should have pointed this out earlier that I actually mentioned the guys name and she did not. I said ____ is kind of a different person. She then said something along the lines of I sort of like him but I dont know.

I then proceeded to mention going to look at Christmas lights. I then asked her if she would like to join me. ( I might not have made the clear in the first post) I forgot what my schedule was like for the week in finals. I told her that tonight we would finalize. She then suggested that we go see a movie. We were talking about Oceans 12 and she was like we should go see that after we are done looking at lights.

Conversation went well the rest of the night and BTW I flirt with her a good bit. Eye contact making jokes ETC. I leave for work in about 45 minutes and am open for tips on how to make myself have a better chance if I did something wrong.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I remember reading your story. Sounds like you have stepped it up a notch, but just remember what the others have told you, and advance slowly out of the "friend phase" dont know if youll succeed because it is a hard road to follow, but just make sure to do lots of kino and c+f!
 

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ok im sorry to be a pain.....but the DJ Bible link is dead can some explain what this lingo is
 

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kino = non-sexual touch (on the arm, hand, back, etc)
c+f = ****y and funny

Dude, don't worry about it too much. Just go on the fvcking date and remember to HAVE FUN! If you don't have fun, she won't and the date will turn out like 5hit.

If you have fun, you'll do well.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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