SuperAlbert
Don Juan
25 here. Best time for me are on Friday's since the last bus from the Port Authority leaves at 1:30 am (I don't have a car).
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
NYC Meeting! NJ, NY, PA, CT, NYC June 3rd, 2006 Get in here!
- Thread starter BlackAccord
- Start date
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
lexdiamond20
Don Juan
Hey im down. First meeting was pretty fun. A few guys from Mystery Method.com would like to hang out too. Ill give them a heads up.
lexdiamond20
Don Juan
Drum, start a new thread with a headline along the lines of "NYC sarge meetup - Sept. 2"Drum&Bass said:
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
WestCoast1492
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I have a party on Sept 2nd!!! 
gongxia649
Don Juan
i will really hang out with the last group of people i met in NY.
But i think i cant go to this one on spt 2nd. im not in Njersey anymore.
i will go back to NJ in DEC due to bussiness related.
But i think i cant go to this one on spt 2nd. im not in Njersey anymore.
i will go back to NJ in DEC due to bussiness related.
lexdiamond20
Don Juan
Hey is it at all possible for us to meet up the same place we did the first time; Penn Station. Its a familiar landmark and I dont think any one of us that showed up there had a hard time finding it.
Also, Bass, since your the one organizing this one, make sure you get everyones conatact info.
Also, Bass, since your the one organizing this one, make sure you get everyones conatact info.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.