SuperAlbert
Don Juan
25 here. Best time for me are on Friday's since the last bus from the Port Authority leaves at 1:30 am (I don't have a car).
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
NYC Meeting! NJ, NY, PA, CT, NYC June 3rd, 2006 Get in here!
- Thread starter BlackAccord
- Start date
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
lexdiamond20
Don Juan
Hey im down. First meeting was pretty fun. A few guys from Mystery Method.com would like to hang out too. Ill give them a heads up.
lexdiamond20
Don Juan
Drum, start a new thread with a headline along the lines of "NYC sarge meetup - Sept. 2"Drum&Bass said:
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
WestCoast1492
Don Juan
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I have a party on Sept 2nd!!! 
gongxia649
Don Juan
i will really hang out with the last group of people i met in NY.
But i think i cant go to this one on spt 2nd. im not in Njersey anymore.
i will go back to NJ in DEC due to bussiness related.
But i think i cant go to this one on spt 2nd. im not in Njersey anymore.
i will go back to NJ in DEC due to bussiness related.
lexdiamond20
Don Juan
Hey is it at all possible for us to meet up the same place we did the first time; Penn Station. Its a familiar landmark and I dont think any one of us that showed up there had a hard time finding it.
Also, Bass, since your the one organizing this one, make sure you get everyones conatact info.
Also, Bass, since your the one organizing this one, make sure you get everyones conatact info.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.