"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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NYC Meeting! NJ, NY, PA, CT, NYC June 3rd, 2006 Get in here!

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The long awaited sarging night has come. This is your chance to meet fellow members from the board. Talk and hang out with people who share the same interest as you, MEETING GIRLS! Here's what's exactly going down for the night.

Date: June 3, 2006-Saturday

Time: 7:45pm DON'T BE LATE!

Location: NYC Penn Station (I'll have an exact meeting spot in Penn updated shortly)

Requirements: 18 years or older (or bring a damn good fake ID for clubs)

What were doing:
7:45pm-Meet up. Introductions. Etc.
8:00pm-Head out and hit the city. Walk around, maybe stop for a bite to eat (nothing fancy as we would need reservations), hang out and get to know each other.
9:30ishpm-Decide on a place to go as far as a club, lounge, bar (that doesn't ID), or some place where we could meet girls and socialize. We'll work as a team in picking up girls, help each other out, give pointers etc.

No Ending Time, Leave When You Want

Most likely it will be a club (has to be 18+), and I have a few in mind but please post if you have suggestions on where to go. Dress appropriately.

Please sign up below if you think or are definetly going to go. Leave your phone number and name in your post as well to get in contact with you. Or message me your # if you don't want to post it.

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Blackaccord-Jeff w/ 3 friends
LexDiamond20-Omar
KingBeef-Jon
 
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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im really really interested how this turns out. give an update please
 
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count me in, i should get outta work at like 4pm that day.
this is just what i needed :)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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List Thus Far:

Blackaccord-Jeff w/ 3 friends
LexDiamond20-Omar
KingBeef-Jon
ssj245-Hark
rock-star_brian-Brian
ABSoluteboxer-Kelvin

We still need more!
 
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KingBeef

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to all you NYC, METRO AREA DJ's out there....

I think if whether, you're struggling with your dating life, need a refresher course, want to have some fun...let loose, need some tips, just a little insecure, have a good time and have nothing to lose, or want some REAL HONEST ANSWERS, FROM REAL MEN (EVEN IF IT HURTS SO YOU CAN EVOLVE INTO SOMETHING BETTER)...not that PU$$Y sh!t that your mom, sister or other "girls" have been talking to you for all these years....IT'S IMPERATIVE THAT YOU GUYS GO OUT WITH US THIS SATURDAY NIGHT and talk to guys who have been there and done that.

For me personally....I constantly want to better myself and I'M JUST CURIOUS TO SEE WHAT YOU SILLY BASTARDS LOL :crackup: JUST KIDDIN

But seriously, it would be nice to see how you guys are in real life outside of this forum and to most importantly HAVE FUN... SO SIGN UP YOU SILLY MOFO'S :trouble: :trouble: :trouble: :crackup: :crackup:

- Kingbeef
 
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NYC Dude

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I'd be there, but I'm only 17 and I already have somewhere else that I'm going saturday night.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

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