"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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NYC Meeting! NJ, NY, PA, CT, NYC June 3rd, 2006 Get in here!

BlackAccord

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The long awaited sarging night has come. This is your chance to meet fellow members from the board. Talk and hang out with people who share the same interest as you, MEETING GIRLS! Here's what's exactly going down for the night.

Date: June 3, 2006-Saturday

Time: 7:45pm DON'T BE LATE!

Location: NYC Penn Station (I'll have an exact meeting spot in Penn updated shortly)

Requirements: 18 years or older (or bring a damn good fake ID for clubs)

What were doing:
7:45pm-Meet up. Introductions. Etc.
8:00pm-Head out and hit the city. Walk around, maybe stop for a bite to eat (nothing fancy as we would need reservations), hang out and get to know each other.
9:30ishpm-Decide on a place to go as far as a club, lounge, bar (that doesn't ID), or some place where we could meet girls and socialize. We'll work as a team in picking up girls, help each other out, give pointers etc.

No Ending Time, Leave When You Want

Most likely it will be a club (has to be 18+), and I have a few in mind but please post if you have suggestions on where to go. Dress appropriately.

Please sign up below if you think or are definetly going to go. Leave your phone number and name in your post as well to get in contact with you. Or message me your # if you don't want to post it.

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Blackaccord-Jeff w/ 3 friends
LexDiamond20-Omar
KingBeef-Jon
 
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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im really really interested how this turns out. give an update please
 

bakaten

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count me in, i should get outta work at like 4pm that day.
this is just what i needed :)
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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BlackAccord

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List Thus Far:

Blackaccord-Jeff w/ 3 friends
LexDiamond20-Omar
KingBeef-Jon
ssj245-Hark
rock-star_brian-Brian
ABSoluteboxer-Kelvin

We still need more!
 

KingBeef

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to all you NYC, METRO AREA DJ's out there....

I think if whether, you're struggling with your dating life, need a refresher course, want to have some fun...let loose, need some tips, just a little insecure, have a good time and have nothing to lose, or want some REAL HONEST ANSWERS, FROM REAL MEN (EVEN IF IT HURTS SO YOU CAN EVOLVE INTO SOMETHING BETTER)...not that PU$$Y sh!t that your mom, sister or other "girls" have been talking to you for all these years....IT'S IMPERATIVE THAT YOU GUYS GO OUT WITH US THIS SATURDAY NIGHT and talk to guys who have been there and done that.

For me personally....I constantly want to better myself and I'M JUST CURIOUS TO SEE WHAT YOU SILLY BASTARDS LOL :crackup: JUST KIDDIN

But seriously, it would be nice to see how you guys are in real life outside of this forum and to most importantly HAVE FUN... SO SIGN UP YOU SILLY MOFO'S :trouble: :trouble: :trouble: :crackup: :crackup:

- Kingbeef
 

NYC Dude

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I'd be there, but I'm only 17 and I already have somewhere else that I'm going saturday night.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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