SuperAlbert
Don Juan
25 here. Best time for me are on Friday's since the last bus from the Port Authority leaves at 1:30 am (I don't have a car).
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
NYC Meeting! NJ, NY, PA, CT, NYC June 3rd, 2006 Get in here!
- Thread starter BlackAccord
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
lexdiamond20
Don Juan
Hey im down. First meeting was pretty fun. A few guys from Mystery Method.com would like to hang out too. Ill give them a heads up.
lexdiamond20
Don Juan
Drum, start a new thread with a headline along the lines of "NYC sarge meetup - Sept. 2"Drum&Bass said:
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
WestCoast1492
Don Juan
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I have a party on Sept 2nd!!! 
gongxia649
Don Juan
i will really hang out with the last group of people i met in NY.
But i think i cant go to this one on spt 2nd. im not in Njersey anymore.
i will go back to NJ in DEC due to bussiness related.
But i think i cant go to this one on spt 2nd. im not in Njersey anymore.
i will go back to NJ in DEC due to bussiness related.
lexdiamond20
Don Juan
Hey is it at all possible for us to meet up the same place we did the first time; Penn Station. Its a familiar landmark and I dont think any one of us that showed up there had a hard time finding it.
Also, Bass, since your the one organizing this one, make sure you get everyones conatact info.
Also, Bass, since your the one organizing this one, make sure you get everyones conatact info.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.