"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
NY/NJ when is a good time for u?
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
SuperAlbert
Don Juan
Everyone else needs to be alot more serious on meeting up. I promise you guys that it's alot of fun and is not as hard as it looks when hittin on girls.
I'm actually on a roll these past few weeks. One example, 3 out of the 5 people of my group who went out for new years at LEAST made out with a random girl (I winged like a mf for these guys). I was actually one of the guys that hooked up with one of the girls. The other two were being big vaginas and that's the only reason why nothing happened because they did nothing.
So guys, I always sarge by myself on the weekends and the more people there are the merrier it'll be. Let's make something happen because I definitely am.
BlackAccord
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Hydroblunt
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I'm definitely down if you guys are. How should we get in touch?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Don John NJ
Don Juan
Road Demon
Senior Don Juan
NYC is usually the program, with Hoboken the Quick option.
Don John NJ
Don Juan
Road Demon
Senior Don Juan
KingBeef
Master Don Juan
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
KingBeef
Master Don Juan
Drum&Bass
Master Don Juan
sure if your white/ age 23 - 27 pulling in 55 -70k a year, love bragging about what part of the world you just came back from/ thinking your smarter than everyone cause you think you know politics, and a total prick, hoboken kids are a different breed fuk em' and their yuppie holier than thou attitudes.Hoboken isn't that bad???
the Portuguese section of newark is cool, I just hung out wit prema last night and it was tight !! holla back woadies !
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
mahon83050
Banned
I'm from Jersey too! My boy actually lives in Hoboken and I like it up there alot. However, it is yuppy central, no doubt about that. It seems everyone who lives there is a lawyer or Wall Streeter! (I am neither)Drum&Bass said:sure if your white/ age 23 - 27 pulling in 55 -70k a year, love bragging about what part of the world you just came back from/ thinking your smarter than everyone cause you think you know politics, and a total prick, hoboken kids are a different breed fuk em' and their yuppie holier than thou attitudes.
the Portuguese section of newark is cool, I just hung out wit prema last night and it was tight !! holla back woadies !
I have been to Newark (Ironbound) section to go to some of the Portuguese restaurants there (they are great)
However, how are the bars in the Portuguese section? I mean, I can pass for Portuguese, but I am sure one has to speak the language?
KingBeef
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funketekun
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I'm available on april 6 and 7. It will be cool to hang out with you like last time.
funketekun
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.