"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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NY/NJ when is a good time for u?

daguru

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im open thurs-sat night going to the city. im from jersey,26.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Friday-Sunday for me...

Everyone else needs to be alot more serious on meeting up. I promise you guys that it's alot of fun and is not as hard as it looks when hittin on girls.

I'm actually on a roll these past few weeks. One example, 3 out of the 5 people of my group who went out for new years at LEAST made out with a random girl (I winged like a mf for these guys). I was actually one of the guys that hooked up with one of the girls. The other two were being big vaginas and that's the only reason why nothing happened because they did nothing.

So guys, I always sarge by myself on the weekends and the more people there are the merrier it'll be. Let's make something happen because I definitely am.
 

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Are any of you guys in NYC? I live on Upper East/Midtown East. Sat & Sun night is all I have open nowdays.
I'm definitely down if you guys are. How should we get in touch?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Don John NJ

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I'm in northern NJ and frequest the city often. I will be 21 in a few days if anyone wants to get in touch and rock out.
 

Road Demon

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NYC is usually the program, with Hoboken the Quick option.
 

Road Demon

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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prema

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newark

Adega on ferry street in newark is fully packed on frid/saturday
if any one down email/pm me

if you know portugese/spanish + as some girls dont know english
 

Drum&Bass

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Hoboken isn't that bad???
sure if your white/ age 23 - 27 pulling in 55 -70k a year, love bragging about what part of the world you just came back from/ thinking your smarter than everyone cause you think you know politics, and a total prick, hoboken kids are a different breed fuk em' and their yuppie holier than thou attitudes.

the Portuguese section of newark is cool, I just hung out wit prema last night and it was tight !! holla back woadies !
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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mahon83050

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Drum&Bass said:
sure if your white/ age 23 - 27 pulling in 55 -70k a year, love bragging about what part of the world you just came back from/ thinking your smarter than everyone cause you think you know politics, and a total prick, hoboken kids are a different breed fuk em' and their yuppie holier than thou attitudes.

the Portuguese section of newark is cool, I just hung out wit prema last night and it was tight !! holla back woadies !
I'm from Jersey too! My boy actually lives in Hoboken and I like it up there alot. However, it is yuppy central, no doubt about that. It seems everyone who lives there is a lawyer or Wall Streeter! (I am neither)

I have been to Newark (Ironbound) section to go to some of the Portuguese restaurants there (they are great)

However, how are the bars in the Portuguese section? I mean, I can pass for Portuguese, but I am sure one has to speak the language?
 

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Hi
I'm available on april 6 and 7. It will be cool to hang out with you like last time.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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