Number or E-mail?

[VegasGuy56]

To all the experienced DJs, do you close by getting a number or an e-mail (And why)?

 

[kegger]

Number is best, it is less hard to get a girl by calling her then emailing her. With email it can get lost or she can just delete it, but when someone calls you it is kind of hard to ignore the call isn't, like they say, curiosity kills the cat. Get the number if possible, I know myself it is hard to make a call, I like to email, it is easier for me. But GET THE NUMBER, you will probally do better.

 

[strams4ever]

Personaly, I think i have a great voice and do well on the phone, I always get numbers. Email addresses or screen names can go either way..

 

[Smooth Player 056]

David D.....claims email is much better.....personally I agre...I go for both

 

[Anomalous]

Get e-mail first because she is more willing to do so, then ask her number through e-mailing.

Glad to see that sosuave has a new keyboard jockey....(smooth)

 

[Smooth Player 056]

Originally posted by whyshy
Get e-mail first because she is more willing to do so, then ask her number through e-mailing.

Glad to see that sosuave has a new keyboard jockey....(smooth)

HA!....KBJ.....I post so many FR's....I post at Mystery's Lounge and Masf.....and post audio FR's. I am part of SF's seduction LAIR......and go sarging with buds from the lair every weekend................so how am I a key board jockey again?

 

[DJ4Real]

Email is better in my opinion. But, never hurts to try for both. I say, if you can get email, you can definetly get her phone number.

 

[kegger]

Ok, my question then is, I have my own style, but how would you guys go about starting an email conversation. Mine works to an extent, but she usually just wants to be friends.

 

[DJ4Real]

What is your style?

 

[kegger]

I usually talk about school, and that is about it. I am not good with conversations, that is one of the reasons I am here. I also sound despriate and am not good at an approach or anything really. Right now I have this chicks emai and am not sure were to go from here, how to start out an email or keep it going and maybe get her phone. The one time before when I went from email to phone I just give her my phone and she gave me hers. What should I do?

 

[steroidsrule]

have patience and make yourself less available if you got her number... by askin for her number she knows your slightly interested and by making yourself less available... you create mystery for her... just dont talk to her everyday that kinda thing... AND HAVE PATIENCE this sorta thing takes more than a day to work... might take a month... but it WILL work if you play your cards right.. good hunting bro

 

[kegger]

Ok, lets see how this sounds to you to start things off with a first email, just to get the ball roling. "Hey, Whats Up, NMH. I was kinda bored and decided to email someone, I bet you can guess who the lucky person was. So how you doing in math class, I am doing great, much better then last 6 weeks. Hope to hear back from you soon, Kegger." Ok I think that sounds to needy or desperate, what do you think.

 

[Vincent]

I try to avoid the internet as much as possible, seems like the easy way out and isn't personal at all.

The number is the only option.

 

[steroidsrule]

agree with vince... anyone can send a email.. few got enough balls to call a HB

 

[kegger]

But I want to use the email to get a phone number.

 

[Vincent]

Originally posted by kegger
But I want to use the email to get a phone number.

So you're taking the easy way out?

 

[SynapsyS]

Kegger: Jesus, man, "I just felt like emailing someone"?

Numbers EVERY time. You guys seem to forget that girls are people as well, they ask questions, and initiate threads of conversation as well. There is nothing to talking on the phone, a girl worth dating will start conversations and ask questions of you, it's not all about YOU having to ask questions. It's not an interview, ffs.

Plus, email is pretty lame. You can't act sexy and desirable via text, unless it's a letter, and you've been dating for years.

I vote numbers.

edit: Plus, asking for like, an MSN addy in highschool is practically instant friend-zoning. "Give me your number" has all the right connotations associated with it (it's the stereotypical start to a relationship, and girls know this), so that works in your favour.

 

[SparkleMotion]

Getting a Email adress is definately easier when first starting out. But I feel kinda weird emailing a girl, tryin to set something up. So I usually just get the number. Since I'm more comfortable calling or texting a girl to set something up.

So I say number close.

 

[kegger]

I had only one great email conversation with a girl so I am going to go back and read all of it, I hope it will help me with this new girl.

 

[The-Sultan]

get any, doesnt matter.