Number One rule to simplify your life as a man when it comes to dating

[BeExcellent]

Being cool with who you are and being comfortable in your own skin begets genuine confidence. That's not the same as simply "be yourself".

Confidence is the number 1 thing that attracts women, but it needs to be authentic, born out of intrinsic inner game.

Authentic inner game is a wellspring of genuine confidence. This is very attractive. Effortlessly so.

Some guys here "get" inner game, some don't.

As a woman I recognize this type of confidence and self assurance immediately. So do other women, but many men lack in this area.

My story is here to read. So are my reasons for being here. If you research my posts you'll find out why I'm here and why I think encouraging men to be the best they can be is important.

 

[daddymonsterpoodle]

I agree on the inner game. I have never read the dj bible or any pick up guides. Having the confidence to make your intentions known, and making it clear you are not a potential bff will solve most of your problems.

Men sem to be of the mindset that we can 'make' someone atracted to us even if they weren't initially. Maybe, but why? We have a finite amount of time on this earthm why waste time trying to change luke warm to hot.

Men, there are always more women to meet. Learn to screen a bit better. Learn to stop fixating on one woman. Learn to be the prize.