"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Number One rule to simplify your life as a man when it comes to dating

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BeExcellent

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Being cool with who you are and being comfortable in your own skin begets genuine confidence. That's not the same as simply "be yourself".

Confidence is the number 1 thing that attracts women, but it needs to be authentic, born out of intrinsic inner game.

Authentic inner game is a wellspring of genuine confidence. This is very attractive. Effortlessly so.

Some guys here "get" inner game, some don't.

As a woman I recognize this type of confidence and self assurance immediately. So do other women, but many men lack in this area.

My story is here to read. So are my reasons for being here. If you research my posts you'll find out why I'm here and why I think encouraging men to be the best they can be is important.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I agree on the inner game. I have never read the dj bible or any pick up guides. Having the confidence to make your intentions known, and making it clear you are not a potential bff will solve most of your problems.

Men sem to be of the mindset that we can 'make' someone atracted to us even if they weren't initially. Maybe, but why? We have a finite amount of time on this earthm why waste time trying to change luke warm to hot.

Men, there are always more women to meet. Learn to screen a bit better. Learn to stop fixating on one woman. Learn to be the prize.
 
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