"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Dominator86

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Fri Nite I went out to a bar, the bartender started talking to me.....Shes 22 and I am 22, but i look older,.. told her I was new to the area, she offereed to show me around on Sunday.....she gave me her number...and i said i would call her on sat to set something up

I called sat afternoon her phone was off, didnt ring, got her voicemail with her name on it. so i know its the right number...i didnt leave a message....Sunday I called again,her phone was till off.. this time leaving my name., and number, and short breif message.....what shold i do now, its monday and all my buddies are going to her bar tonite to watch football, I feel stupid going, knowing that she didnt call me back yet or if shes even planning on returning the calll.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Soprano

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dont feel stupid dude just go and enjoy yourself

dont bring up the call act like its nothin and u forgot about it, which is how u should feel about it anyway ;)

if it was me and she brought it up i'd probably say something like "pft that's coming off your tip" or somethin stupid and not think of it again
 

crossboss

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You've got to see her.

It's hard to tell. If you are getting good vibes I'd say go for it. Just talk to her and see what happens. Just don't show her it bothers you.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Trapper

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why you are calling her again? its no use..you are coming of as a loser and needy.. move man enjoy your life... if she is really interested in you, she would definately call you.. good luck..

Keep it pimpin'
 

Postit225

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I agree with Trapper, theres millions of fish in the sea...even if she is a hottie bartender :p
 

LA_Chico

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yeah, I see hot bartenders at alot of hot Hollwood parties, theres plenty of them bro!
 

Dominator86

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i am so mad abvout my luck with girls lately./...I seem to meet the weirdest girls that have some strange baggage.....everyone girl ive met in the past 2 years has had some sort of strange issue.....what the hell am i suppose todo


i have not met a chick in a long time where it was just easy to hangout, with......any suggestions?
 

Soprano

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start thinking with ur ****

edit - nm i just saw the part about wanting to hang out too
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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