"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Fri Nite I went out to a bar, the bartender started talking to me.....Shes 22 and I am 22, but i look older,.. told her I was new to the area, she offereed to show me around on Sunday.....she gave me her number...and i said i would call her on sat to set something up

I called sat afternoon her phone was off, didnt ring, got her voicemail with her name on it. so i know its the right number...i didnt leave a message....Sunday I called again,her phone was till off.. this time leaving my name., and number, and short breif message.....what shold i do now, its monday and all my buddies are going to her bar tonite to watch football, I feel stupid going, knowing that she didnt call me back yet or if shes even planning on returning the calll.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Soprano

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dont feel stupid dude just go and enjoy yourself

dont bring up the call act like its nothin and u forgot about it, which is how u should feel about it anyway ;)

if it was me and she brought it up i'd probably say something like "pft that's coming off your tip" or somethin stupid and not think of it again
 
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You've got to see her.

It's hard to tell. If you are getting good vibes I'd say go for it. Just talk to her and see what happens. Just don't show her it bothers you.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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why you are calling her again? its no use..you are coming of as a loser and needy.. move man enjoy your life... if she is really interested in you, she would definately call you.. good luck..

Keep it pimpin'
 
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I agree with Trapper, theres millions of fish in the sea...even if she is a hottie bartender :p
 
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yeah, I see hot bartenders at alot of hot Hollwood parties, theres plenty of them bro!
 
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i am so mad abvout my luck with girls lately./...I seem to meet the weirdest girls that have some strange baggage.....everyone girl ive met in the past 2 years has had some sort of strange issue.....what the hell am i suppose todo


i have not met a chick in a long time where it was just easy to hangout, with......any suggestions?
 
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start thinking with ur ****

edit - nm i just saw the part about wanting to hang out too
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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