"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Dominator86

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Fri Nite I went out to a bar, the bartender started talking to me.....Shes 22 and I am 22, but i look older,.. told her I was new to the area, she offereed to show me around on Sunday.....she gave me her number...and i said i would call her on sat to set something up

I called sat afternoon her phone was off, didnt ring, got her voicemail with her name on it. so i know its the right number...i didnt leave a message....Sunday I called again,her phone was till off.. this time leaving my name., and number, and short breif message.....what shold i do now, its monday and all my buddies are going to her bar tonite to watch football, I feel stupid going, knowing that she didnt call me back yet or if shes even planning on returning the calll.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Soprano

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dont feel stupid dude just go and enjoy yourself

dont bring up the call act like its nothin and u forgot about it, which is how u should feel about it anyway ;)

if it was me and she brought it up i'd probably say something like "pft that's coming off your tip" or somethin stupid and not think of it again
 

crossboss

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You've got to see her.

It's hard to tell. If you are getting good vibes I'd say go for it. Just talk to her and see what happens. Just don't show her it bothers you.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Trapper

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why you are calling her again? its no use..you are coming of as a loser and needy.. move man enjoy your life... if she is really interested in you, she would definately call you.. good luck..

Keep it pimpin'
 

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I agree with Trapper, theres millions of fish in the sea...even if she is a hottie bartender :p
 

LA_Chico

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yeah, I see hot bartenders at alot of hot Hollwood parties, theres plenty of them bro!
 

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i am so mad abvout my luck with girls lately./...I seem to meet the weirdest girls that have some strange baggage.....everyone girl ive met in the past 2 years has had some sort of strange issue.....what the hell am i suppose todo


i have not met a chick in a long time where it was just easy to hangout, with......any suggestions?
 

Soprano

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start thinking with ur ****

edit - nm i just saw the part about wanting to hang out too
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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