"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Alright so this girl I've been trying to **** around with has been fine at texting me back till this week when we actually did **** around for the first time, and **** even the next day after we hooked up she texted me first. But after that she has been terrible, she told me that night she wanted to hangout on Friday and then never texted me, and now today we were supposed to drop cid together and she picked the day and I joked about "well you better text back" and now here we are and she won't even text me back when I ask her if she wants to hang out at 6. I know I'm ranting and I apologize but what the **** do I do! It seems like every time I get close something changes and then they either don't text back or act differently, I honestly don't understand what I'm doing wrong so please help
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Ignore her and stop giving her attention. If she comes around then continue, if not, collect new numbers so you can fvck around.
 
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Wait. If she's not texting, she's not texting. You're not supposed to do anything about her.

Meanwhile, get back out there.

If she calls, you should already be busy with other stuff.
 
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Dude chill. Don't text again until you hear from her. If it's been a week or so, then maybe send a ping text asking what's up. But don't come off as butt-hurt that she didn't get back to you.
 
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Tictac said:
Wait. If she's not texting, she's not texting. You're not supposed to do anything about her.

Meanwhile, get back out there.

If she calls, you should already be busy with other stuff.
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I feel like that's kind of submissive though, I shouldn't be like wtf?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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What's better, waiting to hear from her or blowing up her phone with texts acting all needy and sh*t? Some girls, especially girls in their 20's, are time wasters and have the attention span of a pocket mouse. Thank social media.
 
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GS750 said:
Dude chill. Don't text again until you hear from her. If it's been a week or so, then maybe send a ping text asking what's up. But don't come off as butt-hurt that she didn't get back to you.
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My bad this **** just keeps happening though (not with just her) and it's getting annoying, hopefully being on here and learning **** will help though.
 
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My bad this **** just keeps happening though (not with just her) and it's getting annoying, hopefully being on here and learning **** will help though.
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Stick around. The guys here, for the most part, will never steer you wrong. One thing is that you have to reprogram yourself and change your behaviors and belief system. A lot of times, your first knee jerk reaction to something isn't the best way to handle things with the ladies. Most guys here have made the same mistakes. My advice with this girl, for the time being, is to do nothing. Occupy yourself with something else.
 
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Works better if you text her 1-2 days before, and then suggest a specific activity that you will be doing. That way, if you don't hear back by Friday then you won't be stressed out about it and you can plan something else without her.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Obsidian said:
Works better if you text her 1-2 days before, and then suggest a specific activity that you will be doing. That way, if you don't hear back by Friday then you won't be stressed out about it and you can plan something else without her.
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I did and she responded but today she didn't
 
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Well, you don't text again the day of the date. You just show up.

After you've met up with her, you don't text again unless you are setting up another meeting, or unless necessary to respond to her.
 
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Well, you don't text again the day of the date. You just show up.

After you've met up with her, you don't text again unless you are setting up another meeting, or unless necessary to respond to her.
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Well I guess that's where I went wrong then we didn't pick a place to meet
 
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Stick around. The guys here, for the most part, will never steer you wrong. One thing is that you have to reprogram yourself and change your behaviors and belief system. A lot of times, your first knee jerk reaction to something isn't the best way to handle things with the ladies. Most guys here have made the same mistakes. My advice with this girl, for the time being, is to do nothing. Occupy yourself with something else.
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Thanks for the advice man, it honestly helped me move on with my day and I'm for sure gonna stick around and work on well... Everything
 
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Find a new girl. She isn't going to value the time then find someone who will. Girls tend to flake, so delete her number and find a new girl.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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text her this "you flake on me b1tch? u bipolar b1tch, u need meds. i had a bet with my friend i was gonna get u to do a threesome with me and his girl...u cost me money b1tch"

then block and delete her number, don't deal with flakes, not worth your time.
 
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applegoo said:
text her this "you flake on me b1tch? u bipolar b1tch, u need meds. i had a bet with my friend i was gonna get u to do a threesome with me and his girl...u cost me money b1tch"

then block and delete her number, don't deal with flakes, not worth your time.
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Lol classy, I like it! But nah I think I'm just gonna do nothing rn
 
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