Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Because every other bozo who happens to "score" her number is falling over himself to call his new found prize.Jumpman23 said:Normally, I always return phone calls, b/c I am a nice guy. It is part of my conscious. How is it, when you don't initially return a girls phone call and keep the girl waiting. But maybe wait a day or too. From what I see on the board That is supposed to stimulate her interest, by keeping her waiting.
Trying to understand, b/c my perspective is from the "nice guy."
The problem there is that sometimes i don't want to wait, it is really hard to resist the temptation of calling a girl you know is interested. Im actually having a similar situation but the girl didn't return my call after she picked up the phone and told me she was shopping with her mom and would call me as soon as she got home around 8ish.( . )( . ) said:I believe If you leave a good enough impression the first time you can wait as long as you want.
this is almost harsh. Basically, it puts the power in your hands. Part of me believes in having good phone call etiquette and returning her call.( . )( . ) said:Because every other bozo who happens to "score" her number is falling over himself to call his new found prize.
You on the other hand are the prize, and you call if and when she gets lucky enough to hear your voice.
The longest I've personally waited from the first initial meeting is 6 months believe it or not and got some nice sex, mind you she nexted me once she realised I was still a bit of a loser and had no prospects, but thats neither here nor there.
I believe If you leave a good enough impression the first time you can wait as long as you want.
You should not be returning her call anyway. Why does she even have your number?Jumpman23 said:this is almost harsh. Basically, it puts the power in your hands. Part of me believes in having good phone call etiquette and returning her call.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I called her Thurs. to go out w/ some friends. waiting for her to call that night. She was actually working that night until 9. but Didn't call or text me until Friday, night, my phone was off. But she calls me tonight, but I am actually out of town anyways.( . )( . ) said:You should not be returning her call anyway. Why does she even have your number?
You get her number, you call, set up the meeting and goodnight Irene.
After that the phone dramas SHOULD be over. Everything else is masturbation.