“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Not returning phone calls

Jumpman23

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Normally, I always return phone calls, b/c I am a nice guy. It is part of my conscious. How is it, when you don't initially return a girls phone call and keep the girl waiting. But maybe wait a day or too. From what I see on the board That is supposed to stimulate her interest, by keeping her waiting.
Trying to understand, b/c my perspective is from the "nice guy."
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Jumpman23 said:
Normally, I always return phone calls, b/c I am a nice guy. It is part of my conscious. How is it, when you don't initially return a girls phone call and keep the girl waiting. But maybe wait a day or too. From what I see on the board That is supposed to stimulate her interest, by keeping her waiting.
Trying to understand, b/c my perspective is from the "nice guy."
Because every other bozo who happens to "score" her number is falling over himself to call his new found prize.

You on the other hand are the prize, and you call if and when she gets lucky enough to hear your voice.

The longest I've personally waited from the first initial meeting is 6 months believe it or not and got some nice sex, mind you she nexted me once she realised I was still a bit of a loser and had no prospects, but thats neither here nor there.

I believe If you leave a good enough impression the first time you can wait as long as you want. And why the fvck would you be so dead set keen to call her right away anyway? what has she done that spins your head off so much that you MUST call her asap?

Wait, did you just say "when she calls"? Why is she calling you first?

Have you read the DJ Bilble?
 

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I believe If you leave a good enough impression the first time you can wait as long as you want.
The problem there is that sometimes i don't want to wait, it is really hard to resist the temptation of calling a girl you know is interested. Im actually having a similar situation but the girl didn't return my call after she picked up the phone and told me she was shopping with her mom and would call me as soon as she got home around 8ish.
 

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Because every other bozo who happens to "score" her number is falling over himself to call his new found prize.

You on the other hand are the prize, and you call if and when she gets lucky enough to hear your voice.

The longest I've personally waited from the first initial meeting is 6 months believe it or not and got some nice sex, mind you she nexted me once she realised I was still a bit of a loser and had no prospects, but thats neither here nor there.

I believe If you leave a good enough impression the first time you can wait as long as you want.
this is almost harsh. Basically, it puts the power in your hands. Part of me believes in having good phone call etiquette and returning her call.
 

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this is almost harsh. Basically, it puts the power in your hands. Part of me believes in having good phone call etiquette and returning her call.
You should not be returning her call anyway. Why does she even have your number?

You get her number, you call, set up the meeting and goodnight Irene.

After that the phone dramas SHOULD be over. Everything else is masturbation.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You should not be returning her call anyway. Why does she even have your number?

You get her number, you call, set up the meeting and goodnight Irene.

After that the phone dramas SHOULD be over. Everything else is masturbation.
I called her Thurs. to go out w/ some friends. waiting for her to call that night. She was actually working that night until 9. but Didn't call or text me until Friday, night, my phone was off. But she calls me tonight, but I am actually out of town anyways.
 
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