TheLadiesMan
Master Don Juan
Time to change up a bit. Cuz I'm NOT going to lose this woman.... and she just turned 26. She is fine, and loved by many, and now... she's with me. 
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Not going to lose this one... she is FINE!
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Metro3pilot
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UH OH ! ! ! ! :nono: I'm sorry ...something in that post caught my eye ..... what exactly makes you think she's loved by many ?
Good Luck with that one :rockon:
Good Luck with that one :rockon:
Vulpine
Master Don Juan
'Cuz she comes over to his place smelling like me.Metro3pilot said:
:woo:
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Because many men have had her!!! She is 26 and she has had her hor fun and now is looking for a long-term chump who idolizes her to enter into a "permanent" relationship!!! Its been done a billion times!! Say "No" to 26 year old hos!!!!!Metro3pilot said:
fine looking? or does she have an attitude you can live with for the long haul? infatuation clouds judgement...TheLadiesMan said:Time to change up a bit. Cuz I'm NOT going to lose this woman.... and she just turned 26. She is fine, and loved by many, and now... she's with me.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Rollo Tomassi
Master Don Juan
Got a picture of this "fine" 26 y.o. you'd care to share with the group here?
TheLadiesMan
Master Don Juan
Give me sometime to get the picture. Trust me, she's fine. We just started dating, and I ain't going to walk up to her and start taking snapshots right now. I'll get it.