TheLadiesMan
Master Don Juan
Time to change up a bit. Cuz I'm NOT going to lose this woman.... and she just turned 26. She is fine, and loved by many, and now... she's with me. 
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Not going to lose this one... she is FINE!
- Thread starter TheLadiesMan
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Metro3pilot
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UH OH ! ! ! ! :nono: I'm sorry ...something in that post caught my eye ..... what exactly makes you think she's loved by many ?
Good Luck with that one :rockon:
Good Luck with that one :rockon:
Vulpine
Master Don Juan
'Cuz she comes over to his place smelling like me.Metro3pilot said:
:woo:
Last Man Standing
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Because many men have had her!!! She is 26 and she has had her hor fun and now is looking for a long-term chump who idolizes her to enter into a "permanent" relationship!!! Its been done a billion times!! Say "No" to 26 year old hos!!!!!Metro3pilot said:
fine looking? or does she have an attitude you can live with for the long haul? infatuation clouds judgement...TheLadiesMan said:Time to change up a bit. Cuz I'm NOT going to lose this woman.... and she just turned 26. She is fine, and loved by many, and now... she's with me.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Rollo Tomassi
Master Don Juan
Got a picture of this "fine" 26 y.o. you'd care to share with the group here?
TheLadiesMan
Master Don Juan
Give me sometime to get the picture. Trust me, she's fine. We just started dating, and I ain't going to walk up to her and start taking snapshots right now. I'll get it.