TheLadiesMan
Master Don Juan
Time to change up a bit. Cuz I'm NOT going to lose this woman.... and she just turned 26. She is fine, and loved by many, and now... she's with me. 
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Not going to lose this one... she is FINE!
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Metro3pilot
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UH OH ! ! ! ! :nono: I'm sorry ...something in that post caught my eye ..... what exactly makes you think she's loved by many ?
Good Luck with that one :rockon:
Good Luck with that one :rockon:
Vulpine
Master Don Juan
'Cuz she comes over to his place smelling like me.Metro3pilot said:
:woo:
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Because many men have had her!!! She is 26 and she has had her hor fun and now is looking for a long-term chump who idolizes her to enter into a "permanent" relationship!!! Its been done a billion times!! Say "No" to 26 year old hos!!!!!Metro3pilot said:
fine looking? or does she have an attitude you can live with for the long haul? infatuation clouds judgement...TheLadiesMan said:Time to change up a bit. Cuz I'm NOT going to lose this woman.... and she just turned 26. She is fine, and loved by many, and now... she's with me.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Rollo Tomassi
Master Don Juan
Got a picture of this "fine" 26 y.o. you'd care to share with the group here?
TheLadiesMan
Master Don Juan
Give me sometime to get the picture. Trust me, she's fine. We just started dating, and I ain't going to walk up to her and start taking snapshots right now. I'll get it.