TheLadiesMan
Master Don Juan
Time to change up a bit. Cuz I'm NOT going to lose this woman.... and she just turned 26. She is fine, and loved by many, and now... she's with me. 
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
'Cuz she comes over to his place smelling like me.Metro3pilot said:...something in that post caught my eye ..... what exactly makes you think she's loved by many ?
Because many men have had her!!! She is 26 and she has had her hor fun and now is looking for a long-term chump who idolizes her to enter into a "permanent" relationship!!! Its been done a billion times!! Say "No" to 26 year old hos!!!!!Metro3pilot said:UH OH ! ! ! ! :nono: I'm sorry ...something in that post caught my eye ..... what exactly makes you think she's loved by many ?
fine looking? or does she have an attitude you can live with for the long haul? infatuation clouds judgement...TheLadiesMan said:Time to change up a bit. Cuz I'm NOT going to lose this woman.... and she just turned 26. She is fine, and loved by many, and now... she's with me.![]()
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.