"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Not again! ...

European-DJ

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Back in the days I made two topica about the same hb5 girl, with a 10 personality (search my username and you will find the post's). Back then I decided to cut all contact with the girl, because i was getting nowhere with her; kisses, and that was all - some of you might wonder why I even wanted to date a 5'er, but I am tired of everyone 8,5+, trust me I have has my share, the prettier the girl, the more fvcked up she is!

After 6 months of no contact, she decides to write me again - once against I fell into the trap of talking to her! We agrees to stay friends, even though I knew I wanted more, but this time I wasn't going to show it.
So as the meeting escalated, and it was getting late, she started wanting to kiss me - at first I was like 'friends only', but then I slipped.
When the movie ended, and after a lot of last minute resistance, I managed to fvck her; and this is when I really though I had won..

But what happens next? After an extraordinarily nice night, and a great morning and great texting throughout the day, she suddenly turned 180 at me!!

I have no clue what I did wrong, what happened, but after going through our conversation I assume I was too available, might even have been expressing neediness/desperation.
One of my girlfriends agree that I came on too strong, the other one thinks the hb5 is a nice girl, and wouldn't want to brake my heart with the real reason for 'dumping me', which she assumes - and assures me - was due to bad sex.
Now I am going NC with this girl, even though she will always be my one-itis due to her personality and standards! ...

Do any of you have any similar experience? What did you do, what was the reason for the 180? And what was your solution/action
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Kbomb

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Dude, you reek of desperation. Just let it go, you are panicking because you have no viable options with personality. Its just a challenge to up your own personality improvement.
 

European-DJ

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The worst thing is, you are right!

I am so uncontrollably desperate towards this girl, because of one thing, and one thing only; the girls I have as backups, the plates I am spinning and so forth are all WITHOUT/with bad personalities - it is unbearable.

Just wanted to get some opinions and different views on the problem.

But thanks for answering - appreciated!
 

Bokanovsky

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European-DJ said:
some of you might wonder why I even wanted to date a 5'er, but I am tired of everyone 8,5+, trust me I have has my share, the prettier the girl, the more fvcked up she is!
For the record, you are not fooling anyone!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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