"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Not again! ...

European-DJ

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Back in the days I made two topica about the same hb5 girl, with a 10 personality (search my username and you will find the post's). Back then I decided to cut all contact with the girl, because i was getting nowhere with her; kisses, and that was all - some of you might wonder why I even wanted to date a 5'er, but I am tired of everyone 8,5+, trust me I have has my share, the prettier the girl, the more fvcked up she is!

After 6 months of no contact, she decides to write me again - once against I fell into the trap of talking to her! We agrees to stay friends, even though I knew I wanted more, but this time I wasn't going to show it.
So as the meeting escalated, and it was getting late, she started wanting to kiss me - at first I was like 'friends only', but then I slipped.
When the movie ended, and after a lot of last minute resistance, I managed to fvck her; and this is when I really though I had won..

But what happens next? After an extraordinarily nice night, and a great morning and great texting throughout the day, she suddenly turned 180 at me!!

I have no clue what I did wrong, what happened, but after going through our conversation I assume I was too available, might even have been expressing neediness/desperation.
One of my girlfriends agree that I came on too strong, the other one thinks the hb5 is a nice girl, and wouldn't want to brake my heart with the real reason for 'dumping me', which she assumes - and assures me - was due to bad sex.
Now I am going NC with this girl, even though she will always be my one-itis due to her personality and standards! ...

Do any of you have any similar experience? What did you do, what was the reason for the 180? And what was your solution/action
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Dude, you reek of desperation. Just let it go, you are panicking because you have no viable options with personality. Its just a challenge to up your own personality improvement.
 

European-DJ

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The worst thing is, you are right!

I am so uncontrollably desperate towards this girl, because of one thing, and one thing only; the girls I have as backups, the plates I am spinning and so forth are all WITHOUT/with bad personalities - it is unbearable.

Just wanted to get some opinions and different views on the problem.

But thanks for answering - appreciated!
 

Bokanovsky

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European-DJ said:
some of you might wonder why I even wanted to date a 5'er, but I am tired of everyone 8,5+, trust me I have has my share, the prettier the girl, the more fvcked up she is!
For the record, you are not fooling anyone!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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