NorwegianDJ
Master Don Juan
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Im gonna be away for a good 12 days. Cheers.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Jack Wealthy said:Threeway?
Okay, touchy feely mode beasts. I did it for a while then I got rejected and stops. Which makes no sense. The chick had the greatest ass ever.
Thanks man!Mindgamez said:Gotta watch fight club someday! It looks like it is an epic movie.
I can't believe you escaped guards like a ninja... that's so epic but at the same time it's so not good lol. I'd never do that! I bet you felt like you were in some chase scene from a movie.
Nice post in highschool-game. It looks pro.
Btw you're an inspiring person. Keep doing what you do![]()
I'll have to spend a day reading my journal sometime. I changed so much in the first few months.ryanjevo said:Bro, I freaking love you. This is so epic to read. I literally only read the first page and the last page and WHAT A DANG CHANGE!
To losing your v-card with HB cloud to having a threesome and all kindsa ****. I'm definitely reading more. Also, starting my own journal.
Thanks bro.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
No.NorwegianDJ said:Watch it!
I have now lost my attraction for you, because you reacted. lolBPH said:
How many days a week do you repeat each?NorwegianDJ said:Heres the first 12 weeks of the bench press routine that I started on tuesday. It took me 15 minutes to complete a session. I added a set of myotonic crunches on the end. TRY THEM. They're super effective.
Once.LearningSlowly said:How many days a week do you repeat each?
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.