NorwegianDJ
Master Don Juan
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Im gonna be away for a good 12 days. Cheers.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Jack Wealthy said:Threeway?
Okay, touchy feely mode beasts. I did it for a while then I got rejected and stops. Which makes no sense. The chick had the greatest ass ever.
Thanks man!Mindgamez said:Gotta watch fight club someday! It looks like it is an epic movie.
I can't believe you escaped guards like a ninja... that's so epic but at the same time it's so not good lol. I'd never do that! I bet you felt like you were in some chase scene from a movie.
Nice post in highschool-game. It looks pro.
Btw you're an inspiring person. Keep doing what you do![]()
I'll have to spend a day reading my journal sometime. I changed so much in the first few months.ryanjevo said:Bro, I freaking love you. This is so epic to read. I literally only read the first page and the last page and WHAT A DANG CHANGE!
To losing your v-card with HB cloud to having a threesome and all kindsa ****. I'm definitely reading more. Also, starting my own journal.
Thanks bro.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
No.NorwegianDJ said:Watch it!
I have now lost my attraction for you, because you reacted. lolBPH said:
How many days a week do you repeat each?NorwegianDJ said:Heres the first 12 weeks of the bench press routine that I started on tuesday. It took me 15 minutes to complete a session. I added a set of myotonic crunches on the end. TRY THEM. They're super effective.
Once.LearningSlowly said:How many days a week do you repeat each?
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.