NorwegianDJ
Master Don Juan
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Im gonna be away for a good 12 days. Cheers.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Jack Wealthy said:Threeway?
Okay, touchy feely mode beasts. I did it for a while then I got rejected and stops. Which makes no sense. The chick had the greatest ass ever.
Thanks man!Mindgamez said:Gotta watch fight club someday! It looks like it is an epic movie.
I can't believe you escaped guards like a ninja... that's so epic but at the same time it's so not good lol. I'd never do that! I bet you felt like you were in some chase scene from a movie.
Nice post in highschool-game. It looks pro.
Btw you're an inspiring person. Keep doing what you do![]()
I'll have to spend a day reading my journal sometime. I changed so much in the first few months.ryanjevo said:Bro, I freaking love you. This is so epic to read. I literally only read the first page and the last page and WHAT A DANG CHANGE!
To losing your v-card with HB cloud to having a threesome and all kindsa ****. I'm definitely reading more. Also, starting my own journal.
Thanks bro.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
No.NorwegianDJ said:Watch it!
I have now lost my attraction for you, because you reacted. lolBPH said:
How many days a week do you repeat each?NorwegianDJ said:Heres the first 12 weeks of the bench press routine that I started on tuesday. It took me 15 minutes to complete a session. I added a set of myotonic crunches on the end. TRY THEM. They're super effective.
Once.LearningSlowly said:How many days a week do you repeat each?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.