"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
hehe yeah norwgian girls are cold , the really pretty ones are colder, and if u got brown skin they are even more cold.... U have to either be a friend of a friend of a friend or make a really REALLY good first impression....
As said before Norway is the ultimate test for sarging... usa compeared to norway is like taking candy from a baby.... Thats why im gonna move my ass out of this country and go to sunny Australia and relax on the beach with my gitar and a beer =) paradise =)
Man i wish i would have found this site like 4 years agoo , i would have played the chicks that i now know were into me... I was always kinda blind to see the signs that women gave me, and they ended up loosing interest after two months or so... This one chick tried to pick me up by giving me a job as a model, but i didnt have any experiance in picking up women, so i messed it up as always.... Another time i was so close to getting laid, but i was drunk and she was neg hitting me and i was taking it seriuos and did a really stupid thing, she got mad and we didnt talk for three months... But anyways done is done and u learn from your mistakes...
btw Tønsberg her folkens =)
martoslo
Don Juan
Wow, what a small world. I am planning to leave the country as well, every aspect of the country is just too cold
Oslo her, men er i Tønsberg i ferien. brygga i tønsberg er jo legendarisk! forrige helg var veldig bra med festivalen og det hele
Sasha
Don Juan
Alle folka fra oslo
La oss treffes en dag et eller annet sted og ta en pilseller noe? hvem er med?
studofnorway
Don Juan
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Centaurion
Master Don Juan
didnt know that there were this many people here from norway.
I'm from oslo guys, but currently studying in sydney. heh but I gotta tell ya, i think the chicks down here oin Oz are alot nicer/hotter then chicks back home. Yeah, norwegian chicks are hot, but they don't know how to ****ing dress. They have no class.
tntiger
New Member
The community is growing!
Student in Trondheim here, a very cold city at the moment as it is....
let me know if u're in the area and wanna meet and go out sometime
tigerpua [@t] gmail.com
tntiger
New Member
cfajason
Don Juan
tntiger
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Cool, lot's of OsloensersOriginally posted by cfajason
Im from Norway too
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
cfajason
Don Juan
The girls are really cold here..atleast until you get to know them. They know they can have their pick and they take full advantage of that. It's far between the uglies in Norway and therfore it is a great! country to live in if you posess the skills. But it can also be the most frustrating country if you don't....
Confidence is the hottest thing you got, so i guess we just have to keep working on it. And putting ourselves out there!
Swedish girls are hotter, equally *****y, but they like norwegian guys better than swedish guys
I've always had better luck with sweedish girls, which is weird, 'cause everyone tells me that I look swedish..which i kinda do i guess... :Squy
Master Don Juan
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go go go gutta! La oss samarbeider og vis disse kjerringene hva en ekte mann er. The sosuave.com way
And BTW people, norwegian girls are just like any other girls, its just that they have the good look factor added...
cfajason
Don Juan
Squiy jeg har addet deg.....flere som har MSN???
studofnorway
Don Juan
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
cfajason
Don Juan
cfajason
Don Juan
studofnorway
Don Juan
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This may be te wrong time a year for girls, but there is always a tomorrow
Feel free to use my msn, even though I have a gf, the topic interrests me Squy
Master Don Juan
Jeg har invitert cfajason, og prøver å få med deg også studofnorway. Det er bare det at, jeg har allerede et super bra mål til cfajason, 3 stykker er mine mål, 4 har typer allerede og rundt 10 andre er uten interresse for meg. Jeg kan egentlig korte ned mine 3 mål til 2 mål, og la hun ene være hovedmålet ditt, studofnorway. Dette er ikke en vanlig klassefest, hun ene, faktisk studofnorways hovedmål bruker sin bursdag som grunnen for denne "klassefesten". Men vi må på ingen måter bringe noen gaver Og ikke uro om dere kommer inn eller ikke, dere kommer inn! Ferdig med saken ^^
Jeg kommer tilbake med nærmere info. studofnorway, jeg trenger mobilnummeret ditt. Jeg tenker vi kunne møte et sted før vi 3 drar sammen til festen.
cfajason
Don Juan
Studofnorway im adding u now“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.