"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
hehe yeah norwgian girls are cold , the really pretty ones are colder, and if u got brown skin they are even more cold.... U have to either be a friend of a friend of a friend or make a really REALLY good first impression....
As said before Norway is the ultimate test for sarging... usa compeared to norway is like taking candy from a baby.... Thats why im gonna move my ass out of this country and go to sunny Australia and relax on the beach with my gitar and a beer =) paradise =)
Man i wish i would have found this site like 4 years agoo , i would have played the chicks that i now know were into me... I was always kinda blind to see the signs that women gave me, and they ended up loosing interest after two months or so... This one chick tried to pick me up by giving me a job as a model, but i didnt have any experiance in picking up women, so i messed it up as always.... Another time i was so close to getting laid, but i was drunk and she was neg hitting me and i was taking it seriuos and did a really stupid thing, she got mad and we didnt talk for three months... But anyways done is done and u learn from your mistakes...
btw Tønsberg her folkens =)
martoslo
Don Juan
Wow, what a small world. I am planning to leave the country as well, every aspect of the country is just too cold
Oslo her, men er i Tønsberg i ferien. brygga i tønsberg er jo legendarisk! forrige helg var veldig bra med festivalen og det hele
Sasha
Don Juan
Alle folka fra oslo
La oss treffes en dag et eller annet sted og ta en pilseller noe? hvem er med?
studofnorway
Don Juan
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Centaurion
Master Don Juan
didnt know that there were this many people here from norway.
I'm from oslo guys, but currently studying in sydney. heh but I gotta tell ya, i think the chicks down here oin Oz are alot nicer/hotter then chicks back home. Yeah, norwegian chicks are hot, but they don't know how to ****ing dress. They have no class.
tntiger
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The community is growing!
Student in Trondheim here, a very cold city at the moment as it is....
let me know if u're in the area and wanna meet and go out sometime
tigerpua [@t] gmail.com
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cfajason
Don Juan
tntiger
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Cool, lot's of OsloensersOriginally posted by cfajason
Im from Norway too
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
cfajason
Don Juan
The girls are really cold here..atleast until you get to know them. They know they can have their pick and they take full advantage of that. It's far between the uglies in Norway and therfore it is a great! country to live in if you posess the skills. But it can also be the most frustrating country if you don't....
Confidence is the hottest thing you got, so i guess we just have to keep working on it. And putting ourselves out there!
Swedish girls are hotter, equally *****y, but they like norwegian guys better than swedish guys
I've always had better luck with sweedish girls, which is weird, 'cause everyone tells me that I look swedish..which i kinda do i guess... :Squy
Master Don Juan
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go go go gutta! La oss samarbeider og vis disse kjerringene hva en ekte mann er. The sosuave.com way
And BTW people, norwegian girls are just like any other girls, its just that they have the good look factor added...
cfajason
Don Juan
Squiy jeg har addet deg.....flere som har MSN???
studofnorway
Don Juan
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
cfajason
Don Juan
cfajason
Don Juan
studofnorway
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This may be te wrong time a year for girls, but there is always a tomorrow
Feel free to use my msn, even though I have a gf, the topic interrests me Squy
Master Don Juan
Jeg har invitert cfajason, og prøver å få med deg også studofnorway. Det er bare det at, jeg har allerede et super bra mål til cfajason, 3 stykker er mine mål, 4 har typer allerede og rundt 10 andre er uten interresse for meg. Jeg kan egentlig korte ned mine 3 mål til 2 mål, og la hun ene være hovedmålet ditt, studofnorway. Dette er ikke en vanlig klassefest, hun ene, faktisk studofnorways hovedmål bruker sin bursdag som grunnen for denne "klassefesten". Men vi må på ingen måter bringe noen gaver Og ikke uro om dere kommer inn eller ikke, dere kommer inn! Ferdig med saken ^^
Jeg kommer tilbake med nærmere info. studofnorway, jeg trenger mobilnummeret ditt. Jeg tenker vi kunne møte et sted før vi 3 drar sammen til festen.
cfajason
Don Juan
Studofnorway im adding u now"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.