"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Northern Vs. Southern California

Marcopolo

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I have heard time and again that there are so many more good looking single women in southern California and the ratios are much more in a guys favor there than in northern Califronia. Is this really true or is it a bunch of B.S.?. I live in northern California now and some places may not be that great, but at least superficially San Francisco seems to have a lot of cute women in the 18-35 year old range. I ahve never lived in L.A. so I don't know if that area is so much better than even S.F. Any thoughts? Experiences?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Derek Flint

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SoCal had a lot of "model/actress" types, but they are more high-maintanence, gold-digger types.

San Francisco is OK, but it is best during tourist season, which runs between now and mid-October.

That's when you get women from not just all over the country, but all over the world visiting SF

The parade of Swedish, German, French, Czech, Hungarian, Russian, Croatian etc...women during those months is a sight to behold.
 

realmz1

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I was raise dn grew up in San Deigo and I fly to LA every few months for business...and I will have to say the hotterst chicks are definately so cal...san diego is a nice hotspot..and LA isn't too shabby....plenty of hookups for me in the alhambra,la puente, and city of industry areas...
 
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