"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Northern Vs. Southern California

Marcopolo

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I have heard time and again that there are so many more good looking single women in southern California and the ratios are much more in a guys favor there than in northern Califronia. Is this really true or is it a bunch of B.S.?. I live in northern California now and some places may not be that great, but at least superficially San Francisco seems to have a lot of cute women in the 18-35 year old range. I ahve never lived in L.A. so I don't know if that area is so much better than even S.F. Any thoughts? Experiences?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Derek Flint

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SoCal had a lot of "model/actress" types, but they are more high-maintanence, gold-digger types.

San Francisco is OK, but it is best during tourist season, which runs between now and mid-October.

That's when you get women from not just all over the country, but all over the world visiting SF

The parade of Swedish, German, French, Czech, Hungarian, Russian, Croatian etc...women during those months is a sight to behold.
 

realmz1

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I was raise dn grew up in San Deigo and I fly to LA every few months for business...and I will have to say the hotterst chicks are definately so cal...san diego is a nice hotspot..and LA isn't too shabby....plenty of hookups for me in the alhambra,la puente, and city of industry areas...
 
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