"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Northern Vs. Southern California

Marcopolo

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I have heard time and again that there are so many more good looking single women in southern California and the ratios are much more in a guys favor there than in northern Califronia. Is this really true or is it a bunch of B.S.?. I live in northern California now and some places may not be that great, but at least superficially San Francisco seems to have a lot of cute women in the 18-35 year old range. I ahve never lived in L.A. so I don't know if that area is so much better than even S.F. Any thoughts? Experiences?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Derek Flint

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SoCal had a lot of "model/actress" types, but they are more high-maintanence, gold-digger types.

San Francisco is OK, but it is best during tourist season, which runs between now and mid-October.

That's when you get women from not just all over the country, but all over the world visiting SF

The parade of Swedish, German, French, Czech, Hungarian, Russian, Croatian etc...women during those months is a sight to behold.
 

realmz1

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I was raise dn grew up in San Deigo and I fly to LA every few months for business...and I will have to say the hotterst chicks are definately so cal...san diego is a nice hotspot..and LA isn't too shabby....plenty of hookups for me in the alhambra,la puente, and city of industry areas...
 
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